Doing anything for the first time can be confusing and frustrating, even intimidating, but it can also be exciting. The same goes when you decide to buy your first vibrator. To make the experience less frustrating and more on the exciting side, (plus with all the different types of vibrators available) Randy Fox has put together a few tips and recommendations for your consideration.

Here are some questions for you to consider:

 

Will you be using it solo or with a partner?

Vibrators are usually multi-taskers. You can always use it for your solo sessions but sprinkle in a dash of imagination and oh, the things you can do to spice up your couple play. Take into consideration what works and what is comfortable for you for if you will primarily be using it for solo play. Wrist cramps can cramp your style and may just cut short that orgasmic bliss. If it’s primarily for couple play, they you should also consider your partner’s preference. Or maybe you and your partner can have a sit down session for this.

You might also want to give remote controlled vibes a thought. It is awesome for either solo or couple play and gives you more freedom for your sexual exploits.

Some awesome remote controlled vibes for you:

Svakom Elva Remote Controlled Vibrator 

Svakom Elva

This waterproof remote controlled vibrator may be small but it is certainly packed with action. The stimulator may only be 8 cm in total length but it houses a powerful yet whisper-quiet motor that boasts a total of 26 functions. The Elva is equipped with 5 different modes with 5 intensities per mode each.

LELO Tiani 3 Couple's Vibrator 

LELO Tiani 3

Better and more powerful than any of its predecessors, the LELO Tiani 3 boasts of 8 stimulation modes that are guaranteed to give both you and your partner the most incredible orgasms, and repeatedly at that! For two of those stimulation modes, you won’t even have to touch anything, because the remote will take care of it. With a powerful motor that’s a hundred percent more powerful than its predecessors, you can expect your orgasms to be quite the explosive event!

We-Vibe Match Couple’s Vibrator 

We-Vibe Match

Designed to be worn during sex, We-Vibe Match promises and absolutely delivers intense stimulation for you and your lover. With 10 vibration modes and 10 levels of intensity, there is a mode for your every mood easily controlled via a remote control.

 

 

What material is the toy made of?

The very thing on this list is that your toy should be phthalates-free. Phthalates a group of chemicals used to make plastics more flexible and harder to break. You don’t want that inside of you.

If you like silicone, make sure it is medical-grade. This material is great as it is easy to clean, flexible, and quickly warms up with body heat. Leather and glass is also a great choice and usually selected for its elegant look and sexy feel. If you want a clitoral vibe, hard plastic is the way to go.

A general rule for materials is that the lower priced the toy is, the lower quality the material.

Some toys made from phthalates-free silicone for you:

Randy Fox - Mini Bunny Vibrator With Tickler  

Randy Fox - Mini Bunny Bullet Vibrator With Tickler

The advantage of a mini bunny like this is being able to bring it along anywhere. If the time and situation isn't conducive for internal massaging, simply remove the silicone body sleeve and use the bullet on its own. It's perfect for travel, experiments in exhibitionism, and vibrator beginners.

 Lustre By Playful Flame Rechargeable Rabbit Vibrator

Lustre By Playful Flame

The Lustre by Playful Flame Rechargeable Rabbit Vibrator features a seamless design that looks amazing and feels amazing. It has double motors and two separate vibrating tips for a thorough, all-around stimulation that will definitely bring you to new heights of pleasure. Cycle through the 7 thrilling vibration settings. You don’t even have to choose your favourite! You will soon find that the Flame has a mode for your every mood. It even has a gently curved transparent LED panel with different colours that glows with a soft ambient light so you can have even more fun in the dark.

Randy Fox - Pleasure Wave 3 - Suction Clitoral Stimulator 

Randy Fox - Pleasure Wave 3

With the combined 35 mind-blowing settings (7 functions, each having 5 separate speeds), there’s nothing on the market quite as thorough as this clitoral stimulator. We are that confident that you’ll love it, we’ve covered it with a 30 day satisfaction guarantee. Experience every kind of stimulation from gentle flutter, pinpoint suction to wildly exhilarating pulsations. Alone or with a partner, the Cycle Flow Air Technology that this chic clitoral stimulator provides is something to truly behold.

 

 

How loud is it?

If you are living alone or just generally don’t mind people in the next room knowing what you’re up to, then a little noise shouldn’t bother you. But if you want to be a little more discreet, then whis-quiet ones are the way to go.

Some whisper-quiet toys for you:

LELO Sona 2 Cruise - Sonic Clitoral Stimulator 

LELO Sona 2 Cruise

The LELO Sona 2 Cruise - Sonic Clitoral Stimulator is the latest version of the worldwide best selling, LELO Sona Cruise. This incredible adult toy provides amazing sonic wave stimulation, with extra Cruise control. Using LELO's SenSonic technology, the all new SONA 2 Cruise stimulates more of the clitoris than ever before. Made of ultra-smooth premium body-safe silicone, the extra soft massager offers an entirely new sensual experience.

Rocks Off Silhouette Dark Desires Vibrator Kit 

Rocks Off Silhouette Dark Desires Vibrator Kit

The Rocks Off Silhouette Dark Desires Vibrator Kit teases, delights, and gets you arching in pure ecstasy. The sensory velvet-soft body-safe silicone bullet has 7 titillating settings of sensual bliss for your exploration.

 

 

Discover your body and get to know your pleasure spots. If you know what works for you, then you will have an easier time picking your toy. Also research and read up on reviews. Happy shopping!