The job of choosing the perfect dildo for you is best achieved through a realisation that the choice first, has little to do with the dildo. Surprise, it’s all about you! If you don’t know yourself, how can you choose which sex toy to use? We have put together a few important points to consider below.


You Love The Pleasure Of Sex, But Don’t Quite Understand Your Own Rhythm

Dildos are used by curious first timers and veterans alike, so never think of yourself as alone in the pursuit of pleasure-on-command.

Deciding which dildo is your perfect match first requires an intimate awareness of your own physiology and fantasy requirements. It’s a fact, most women cannot achieve orgasm through penetration and most men never consider dildo play. This is unfortunate because many quality dildo models are capable of pleasuring a woman inside and out, and can make any man almost comatose with internal pleasure. If you do not know yourself however, how will you choose the right toy?

In private, determine what areas of your body are most sensitive to physical contact and to what degree that area responds. All people are wired differently and have unique combinations of touch and imagery which result in climax.

   


It May Seem There Are Too Many Dildo Choices To Determine Which Model Is The Best

Again, remember that it’s about you not the dildo. Someone in-tune with what their body’s needs can use almost any dildo in a way which produces pleasure.

There are hundreds of dildo models and variations on the market for every type of individual. You could spend eternity trying to find a dildo that “magically” makes you feel great, but the chances are unlikely if you do not own your own sexual sensitivity and awareness.

Experiment with low cost traditional models of dildos in order to find out what truly turns you on. Touch sensitivity can be noted through time spent with sex toys and the desire to discover “hot spots.” Fantasy satisfaction is something completely different. Once you identify your own personal “wiring,” you can search for dildos with specific qualities that match your biologic and psychological parameters.

The expectancy of certain dildo qualities providing sexual gratification is often the crux of achieving orgasmic conclusivity and deeply personal enjoyment.



What If I Choose The Wrong Dildo?

The simple answer is, you’ll just have to try another. Ask yourself, “What is a dildo’s function?” Does colour matter? What about cost? These are details which pale in comparison with really important questions like “where is my most sensitive spot?” Or, “how much pressure should I apply to keep myself excited until orgasm happens?”

In short, women should look for the perfect dildo first, by knowing their own fantasies and biological rhythms. Then, narrow the choices to a list of dildos with desired options and budgetary details. Men (yes, men), should shop for a dildo based on their capacity for penetration, desire to fulfil fantasies and personal sensitivity.

No dildo is perfectly made and suited for one individual or personality type. The more a person understands what turns them on and how their bodies and minds work, increases the chance they will develop the skill and knowledge to shop for and use a dildo that is wonderfully fitted to their special physiology.

Remember, dildos are tools and sexual products used to achieve an orgasmic end. The dildo has no special power above and beyond the skill and knowledge of the individual.

Also, never forget that as a free shopper, you have the option to enjoy a wide spectrum of dildo variations. Never feel confined by the pressure to choose the perfect dildo right out of the gate. It is extremely common for people to have a respectable collection of dildos which represents their personal path to true, natural and pure, dildo-aided sexual satisfaction!