We’ve expanded the official We-Vibe range with quality items. These include the Wish, Sensations in Sync, Pivot and Verge. Each of these comes with a downloadable We-Connect app that has built in pre-set modes for your convenience. If you want a more customised vibration, you can create it as well!

Arrival of the Doc Johnson Kink Line. We’re proud to present to you the Kink range by Doc Johnson, which has taken the world by storm in recent months. Pleasure product legend Doc Johnson has collaborated with Kink.com, the world's largest producer of BDSM entertainment, and a leader in kinky sexuality to provide us with an amazing range of high quality fetish items.

New Satisfyer Items. Bloggers and users alike have called the Satisfyer Pro 2 one of the greatest sex toys ever invented and now, Satisfyer have updated their range with 4 new products. New products range from the entry level Satisfyer 1, to the compact Satisfyer Pro Deluxe.

Sex Toy Tech thanks to Remoji by PicoBong. Remoji is an incredibly fun, colourful and interactive sex toy app designed for the remote control of the new series of PicoBong toys. Pair it up with the four amazing new products from the Remoji line and give your partner a thrill anywhere, anytime!

We are ecstatic to be able to present to you all of these new products, plus hundreds more from California Exotic Novelties, Doc Johnson, Pipedream and further brands. As always, we would like to thank our community and customers for their continued support, which allows us to do what we love and do it with a smile, each and every day!

We can't wait for you to see our Brand New Website! As always, we are constantly sure to be updating our website with the latest tech so as to make your shopping experience even better, year in, year out. We have plans to launch our new and improved website early this year. It will be faster, easier to navigate and have many more perks! Stay tuned!

Expanding the official Randy Fox range of products. We've had some excellent, positive feedback from our customers since we have expanded the official line of RF products to over 200 products and will be adding even more to our collection in 2017. Remember, Randy Fox branded products are shipped on the same business day of order* and as always, we guarantee that our products are smoothly crafted and created with complete quality and your satisfaction in mind.

More Freebies! We've been in talks with the largest adult toy manufacturers in the world and have partnered up with them to start giving out more free gifts and even better specials. Remember to sign up to our newsletter to have access to all of the latest and greatest deals!

Larger Warehouse, Greater Range. We're very excited to announce we will be upgrading our warehouse space and expanding our entire product line by over 2,000 products this year!  We will be adding great new lines and also update current popular brands such as Pipedream, TENGA, Doc Johnson, Cal Exotics and many others.

Once again, we would like to thank our shoppers and community for allowing us to continue to do what we love, and look forward to seeing you all again in 2017 and beyond! As always, shoot us an email or give us a call if you have any questions or feedback, we'd love to hear from you.

1) We’ve all felt the famous, “butterflies in the stomach” phenomenon at some time or another during our lives, but research shows us that what we are really experiencing is caused by adrenaline, which floods our bodies during flight-or-fight response situations.

2) Vibrators were originally invented in the 19th century as a way to reduce "hysteria." The idea of hysteria being a psychological disorder is no longer considered science, but luckily, vibrators have remained around for our personal pleasure since!

3) It’s all about the O! The average female orgasm lasts about 20 seconds, whilst the average male orgasm lasts only 6 seconds.

4) Orgasms are great for our health! Research has found that regular orgasms can lower the risk of heart disease, stroke, certain types of cancer and even depression.

5) Sexercise! Studies have shown that men burn between 150-200 calories on average during sex. On the other hand, women only burn between 50-100 calories per steamy session.

6) Whilst many say chocolate can be an excellent aphrodisiac, apparently the smell of pumpkin can help encourage an erection by helping increase the blood flow to the penis.

7) Orgasms can’t be voluntarily stopped once the process has started because they are the way our body responds to an event. This is the same for a sneeze!

8) Nipple induced orgasms exist! A small percentage of women have reported orgasm solely from nipple and breast stimulation.

9) Studies have shown that frequent male ejaculation (at least once a day) may improve a man’s sperm quality, reduce DNA damage to sperm, and also increase fertility.

10) Rough estimates place the number at approximately 100 million acts of sexual intercourse each day across the globe!

The Revolutionary Satisfyer Pro 2

Incredible Innovation, years in the making. Providing touch-free clitoral stimulation with 11 levels of vibration and pulsation, the Satisfyer Pro 2 has everyone talking and with good reason. It features innovative vacuum technology and a touch-free massage effect whilst in use. Your clitoris will feel pampered and loved like never before.

The Latest from PipeDream Products

Pipedream products continue to expand their amazingly comprehensive line of products. Among them include new upgrades to the best selling Anal Fantasy Collection, the Pipedream Extreme Bubble Butt Masturbator and new additions to the King Cock range.

The Duo Vibrator for Couples

Rianne S brings forth the excellence from the ordinary with their latest innovation in the field of couple vibrators. The Duo Vibe functions as a vibrator for her and a masturbator for him, allowing simultaneous pleasure for both you and your partner in a clever, ergonomic design.

We are excited to be able to present to you all of these new products, plus more from Shots Toys, Pjur and California Exotic Novelties. As always, we would like to thank our community and customers for their continued support, which allows us to do what we love and do it with a smile, everyday. 

As always, we provide Same Business Day Dispatch and Free Shipping over $40 on all Randy Fox branded exclusive orders. We're super excited to showcase some of the latest innovations in the adult toy space via our range. Some of what's new includes:

Rechargeable Randy Power Wand - Large

One of the most powerful vibrating wands on the market!
Ergonomic curves and contours perfect for versatile handling.
30 distinct vibration massage patterns.
Extremely soft, silicone body for easy provider and receiver use.
USB rechargeable internal motor.

 Realistic Feel Randy Mega Booty 

  A super realistic, huge booty with vaginal and anal entry holes.
  Firm, squeezable ass cheeks which feel amazing to the touch (and slap!).
  Weighs in at an incredible 6.8kg (15 lbs).
  Measures 35 cm long by 30 cm wide and 19.5 cm in height.
  Premium quality TPR material provides a delicious life-like feel.

Inflatable Randy Bondage Chair

 An amazing bondage chair, allowing you to experiment with new types of play.
 Sheen black colour with strong PVC material.
 Measures 80cm length x 75cm width x 65cm tall when inflated.
 Velcro arm, wrist, and leg restraints.
 Easily maintained surface.

Rechargeable Rotating Butterfly 

Unique shaft spin/rotation function which gyrates back and forth.
Lengthy, smooth silicone shaft for complete safety and a pleasurable texture.
12 functions of vibration, pulsation and escalation.
Dual motor; separate shaft and clitoral motors.
Rechargeable motor for hours of uninterrupted massage.

Randy Realistics - 8 Inch Superior Realistic Dildo

Incredibly supple, realistic 8 inch dildo.
400 grams in total weight.
Excellent vein, shaft and scrotum detail.
Suction cup for mounting on flat surfaces.
Perfect for O-ring compatible harnesses.

And many more, click here to see our full range. Once again, we would like to thank our community and customers for their continued support, which allows us to do what we love.

1) Give it the initial once-over...

You will want to give your sex toys a good rinsing (if waterproof) or wipe down with a toy cleaner/water before first use. Also, give the entire toy a good visual once-over. Some moulded toys may still have a seam or two, or a plastic nub left over from the manufacturing process, which isn't supposed to still be there and it won't feel good when you use it. You may need to pinch off or file down any such seams.

2) Condoms perhaps...

Yes, even your dildo may need to use a condom. Any time you share sex toys, you'll want to clean it after each use - but to make sure you're not introducing bacteria and risking infection, you might even want to use a condom with your toy; if a condom can be used with it of course!

3) In between uses and storage...

It's important to make sure each sex toy is clean and fresh, free of whatever residues may be left over from your last session. Keeping each toy in its own box, bag or container is a good start. Many sex toys come with a case or a special bag, so make use of it - that keeps your toys from getting scratched, or accidentally infused with whatever other lotions, scents, or liquids you may also have in your toy box. Such storage bags also help to keep your toy free from dust and lint. Remember to take note of the included instructions provided in with the product. If it's not waterproof, don't submerge it in water to clean it. In most cases, ordinary soap and water and a good thorough rinsing will do the job, but just to be extra safe - especially if you're sharing toys - we recommend you use an anti-bacterial cleanser. After cleaning, towel-dry it with a soft cloth. You'll always want to be making sure your products are dry before you store them away.

The caring and cleaning of your sex toys is super important when it comes to ensuring the longevity of your product and also your own safety. We hope the above simple tips helped shed some light for those new to the wonderful world of sex toys!

Quality New LELO Products. LELO is synonymous with excellent quality and being on the cutting edge of adult toy technology and pleasure. We’ve added several excellent, new products from the stylish Swedish line that is LELO and these include:

LELO Tiani 24K. Featuring an amazing ring of 24k gold which has a laser-engraved unique serial number, the new Tiani 24k is the epitome of luxurious pleasure. It also features a new dual-motor design for more power than ever before.

LELO Loki Wave. The new Loki Wave is the first prostate massager to ever offer the incredible ‘come-hither’ motion of operation. A truly unique experience.

LELO Nea 2. The new and improved version of the best selling LELO Nea features an even more powerful and robust motor in its design. 

All New Fantasy C-Ringz Range. Enhance the experience for your penis and your partner thanks to this great new range from Pipedream Products. You’ll find penis rings, sleeves and couple's toys which are sure to amaze!

We are super thrilled to be able to bring to you all of these great products and more from Tantus, Rocks Off, New Sensations Novelties and California Exotic Novelties. As always, we would like to thank our community and customers for their continued support, which allows us to do what we love, and do it with a smile. :) 

Over the holiday period, our phone and customer service staff will be working normal business hours, however due to the holiday closure of our dispatch facility and Australia Post guidelines, most orders placed after 10:00am on the 22/12/2015 (EST) will be dispatched from the 2/1/2016 onwards. Only orders which consist solely of official Randy Fox branded products will dispatch as per normal during this period.

The Randy Fox team is always working hard at making the experience for those shopping with us a cut above the rest and we are super excited leading into 2016. You’ll see many more improvements to our site, including a greater catalogue, faster shopping experience along with more perks, as well as better search functionality. These are just a few of the big plans we have for 2016 and beyond!

Once again, we would like to thank our shoppers and community for allowing us to continue to do what we love, and look forward to seeing you all again soon.

In this post on the RF Blog, we look at four common misconceptions about bondage and BDSM play that may be holding you back from exploring new heights of pleasure.


Myth 1: Let’s define the phrase, ‘weird fetish’ shall we…

A fetish is a specific act, way, or toy that helps heighten your pleasure. But remember, ‘weird’ is totally subjective. If you define ‘weird’ as nothing more than something out of the main stream, weird loses the negative stigma attached. Maybe you like to eat fried pigs feet or enjoy a 10 mile run on your day off. That brings pleasure to you, but it’s not everyone’s cup of tea. They may prefer a day on the couch or sipping coffee for a few hours alone. The point is, you don’t know what brings you pleasure until you try it.

Myth 2: It must be "cruel and sadistic"...

Based on stereotypes, it may seem the dominator takes control and punishes the submissive lover at will. In actuality, the submissive partner places their trust with the dominant partner to not abuse the power freely given up. You can look at it as the most simplistic form of the command and reward system. The dominant lover guides the submissive on how to pleasure and lavishes them with attention for a job well done. If the submissive fails or refuses to fulfil the dominant’s request, punishments may be given.

There are two things to keep in mind regarding this power play. Most couples will use a safe word, as an example ‘Melbourne’. If the submissive refuses to do something for the purposes of defying the dominant partner, they will say no, knowing that a punishment will result. If the submissive refuses to do something because they are not comfortable with the action or situation, they will use the safe word, saying ‘Melbourne’. This way the dominator knows to move on to something else with no further punishment given to the submissive. The other thing to keep in mind is punishment does not always mean pain. Punishment with bondage and BDSM can mean lashes with a whip or being tied up, but it can also mean lack of attention, confiscation of toys, withholding further pleasure, etc. Usually the punishments are discussed and agreed upon before playing begins.

Myth 3: The submissive has no say...

Both partners should always have a say. Usually a discussion of what is expected and comfort zones happen prior to playing so the submissive can fully enjoy being in the non-dominant position. This is your body and your pleasure. Both partners should always respect the comfort level and work within those guidelines. It may not work out well to just tie your partner up and act out your fantasies with no discussion beforehand of the expectations and guidelines of pleasure.

Myth 4: Once you submit, you can never dominate...

A common misconception between partners looking to experiment in bondage and BDSM is that one always should be dominant and the other should always be submissive. Between lovers, it definitely doesn’t have to be that way. One night you can be in control and the next you submit to your partner. It can even switch during the same night. This is why a discussion prior to playing is so beneficial.

We'd like to extend a thank you to all of our treasured members of the Randy Fox community. You continue to make a huge contribution to our goal of providing sexual happiness and by doing so, you allow us to keep on doing what we love. 

 *Free Shipping Offer is only valid for orders which contain official Randy Fox Branded products in them, with said Randy Fox product(s) totalling $40 or more.  Offer is not applicable for any other brand, with standard shipping rates applying for all other orders.

Which One Will Suit Your Needs?

This is the same dilemma I encountered when I purchased my first inflatable sex doll. One of my biggest weaknesses is making a decision when I have so many options to choose from. First off, let's examine why purchasing an inflatable sex doll is the right choice. The three main factors that I always consider when purchasing any sex toy is design, price and convenience. Inflatable sex toys are unique in the sense that they are designed to imitate a life-sized person in both appearance (real or fictional) and mass (i.e. height). Unlike many other male sex toys, inflatable sex dolls genuinely feel different and can add something new to your sexual routine. Inflatable sex dolls are not only aesthetically pleasing but they are in essence a complete package. This includes the capability of performing oral, anal or vaginal penetration on most dolls; not forgetting breasts, hands and feet. The ability to perform hands-free is another added bonus that is often overlooked. These design elements make inflatable sex dolls an exciting prospect for new users.

Cost and Make.

Unfortunately, not all inflatable sex dolls are made equal. Price is also an important aspect to consider when making your selection. A brief look at Randy Fox's range of inflatable/blow up sex dolls demonstrates just how much choice you have. Whether your budget is small or large, there is a doll for you. Generally speaking, dolls priced under $50 are low-end while those priced over $100 are considered high-end products (with mid-end falling between these price ranges). What's the difference you may ask? Simply put, quality varies based on the price you pay. Lower-end dolls are manufactured with minimal detail and thus appear less life-like. This may be bothersome for those who enjoy the fantasy of a doll with a close male or female resemblance. They also tend to last for a shorter time before leaks begin to occur along the seams leading to eventual deflation. As price increases so does the quality of materials used. Higher-end dolls tend to have thicker vinyl which increases product longevity and more consideration is given to human likeness. Some features include 3D rotocasting (face, hands and feet), greater flexibility for different positions, removable vagina/anus sleeves, and extras such as a vibrators and inflation pumps. My advice would be to consider your budget and choose a product that comes from a quality sex toy manufacturer. Nanma and Pipedream Extreme are trusted brands which might be worth a look.

Cleaning and Storage Tips.

Another one of the initial concerns I had was how convenient an inflatable sex doll would be to use, clean and store. Fortunately, inflatable sex dolls tick all the boxes when it comes to convenience. In my experience, they are very comfortable to use (especially the high-end dolls which have an anatomically correct vagina/anus) as they mimic realistic sex positions. They are also very easy to clean with a wet cloth and towel after use. I find that washing my sex doll in the shower is the most practical method (just make sure you dry thoroughly to avoid mould growth). Storage is simple as long as you deflate it after each use; doing so will allow you to fold away in your draw, cupboard or under the bed.

I hope this blog has given you some useful insights into inflatable sex dolls. In my opinion, they are a cost-effective and safe way of exploring your sexuality. Now more than ever is the time to try something different. Good luck!

iSex Pleasure Devices. Give “plug-n-play” a whole new meaning with Pipedream's excellent new collection of portable USB-powered pleasure products. There’s no need for batteries, simply plug an iSex device into the USB port in your computer, car, or mobile phone and you’re ready for fun!

Great new items from Tantus. We are proud to be able to bring to you the all new, Realdoe Stout from the famous strapless strap-on range from Tantus. This new Realdoe features a slightly thicker shaft when compared to previous Realdoe models, but the real genius is in the ever more realistic look and feel, made from Tantus’ own unique formula of 100% Ultra-Premium Silicone. We also have 3 new luxurious harnesses from Tantus that will help facilitate excellent strap-on play.

Premium Rechargeable Silicone Silhouettes. Cal Exotics has released a sensually smooth line of premium silicone massagers, known as the "Silhouettes". Featuring a seamless and velvety silicone exterior, this lovely range of rechargeable pleasure devices are sure to become a hit with all levels of users.

We are super thrilled to be able to bring to you all of these great products and more from TENGA, Je Joue, New Sensations Novelties and Baci Lingerie. As always, we would like to thank our community and customers for their continued support, which allows us to do what we love, and do it with a smile. Let us know if you have any questions, queries or need any assistance at all, a Randy Fox staff member is always a click away and ready to help. :)

If your partner isn’t initially interested in trying your suggestion, talk it out so you can identify their issue with it if possible. If they simply don't want to try it, drop the subject for a bit, try asking if they'd be willing to consider it again a few months down the line instead so they don't feel like you're badgering them about it. If not, it's probably best to simply drop the idea altogether if you care about your partner at all. If not performing a sexual act is a deal breaker for you and they're not interested in it, it might be worth considering if the strain that sexual incompatibility can put on a relationship is worth it.

On the other hand, if the idea of toys make them feel “inadequate”, or they have concerns about being “replaced”, those are a whole lot easier to address. Particularly through action and communication. One way to approach it initially is to explain to your partner about how sexy you believe they'd look masturbating with a product incorporated into you having sex together. Make them feel included by encouraging them to use a toy in combination with something they're doing, like asking them to use a product on you while they perform oral. Or make it sound like something fun like telling them you heard you can improve orgasms by using a given toy while you perform oral on them.

Make it a priority to emphasise that they're the important part of the equation, not the toy. It's about you and them feeling good together. Unlike a personal masturbatory session where they can easily be the main event, toys are spices and garnishes to a couple's relationship and sexuality. They are a way to enhance things rather than a replacement for it.

Always bear in mind, when trying anything new, even when everyone is enthusiastically interested: take things easy. Introduce new things slowly and start light, get to know you and your partner’s limits and ease into things so you don't suddenly find yourself overstepping those limits without warning. It's not a race, take the time to feel things out with your partner. The process of feeling out each other’s limits can be a great way to bond with your partner. If they're reluctant about trying toys at all, taking your time can be a great way to get them to warm up to the idea of them. Then you can start exploring the wonderful world of sex toys together.

We've sorted the below link by the latest products, so you'll see our 20 new items at the very top of the list. From vibrators, anal toys, strap-ons, masturbators and more, feel free to check out our RF range to see if anything tickles your fancy. Purchase any official Randy Fox branded product(s) before 3pm EST and we'll ship them on the same business day! See them all below.

As always, when you see the RF stamp of approval on a product, you can be assured that it was designed and created with complete quality and your satisfaction in mind.

From vibrators, anal toys, strap-ons, masturbators and more, feel free to check out our RF range to see if anything tickles your fancy. Purchase any official Randy Fox branded product(s) before 3pm EST and we'll ship them on the same business day! See them all below.
 

Kegel exercises were pioneered by Dr. Arnold Kegel, a gynaecologist who was looking for a way to treat “genital relaxation”.  However, the benefits of Kegel exercises are profound, and extend beyond sexual health. So much so, that many women swear by their use and effectiveness.
 

Physical Benefits of Kegel Exercises

A woman’s health is commonly affected by aging, pregnancy, childbirth, obesity and surgery.  All of this causes a weakened pelvic muscle.  This can sometimes lead to problems with urinary incontinence and pelvic prolapse.  Regularly performing Kegel exercises can help to strengthen the pelvic muscles.  Over time, this will give women more control over one’s bladder.  Stronger pelvic muscles can also prevent the sagging of pelvic organs, which is known as uterine prolapse. The most common form of Kegel exercise is the classic “flex”, which requires a person to squeeze the muscle manually, as if holding back urine.  Several flexes in short succession, repeated throughout the day can improve pelvic strength.  However, not every person can remember to do this - particularly active women, mothers, students, retirees and so on.  Flexing may also be a strain for some individuals.

 

Kegel Exercisers and Ben Wa Balls - Healthy and Fun

Ben Wa Balls are Kegel exercisers that can make the process easy and fun.  These small balls are designed of body safe materials and are inserted inside the woman’s vagina so she can easily squeeze them.  This will not only improve pelvic muscles, but will also make regular Kegel exercises all the more easier.  Women can use Ben Wa Balls in practically any position; from standing, to sitting to lying down. An added bonus is that Ben Wa Balls and other Kegel exercisers can improve your sexual performance and orgasmic capabilities.  The more in shape you are, the more you enjoy sex.
 

Choosing Between Ben Wa Balls and Kegel Exercisers

There are a variety of “Kegel balls” to choose from, as there are multiple colours and shapes, as well as balls with special features, like vibration.  Some Ben Wa Balls are actually discreet and silent vibrators.  This constant stimulation might even have you on slow simmer all day long, ready for action after dinner!  It all depends on personal preference and what you feel looks good and will do the best job for your situation.  You can choose between exercisers that are discreet and very low intensity level to more “extreme balls.” Sex is healthy enough as is, but who knew Kegel exercises are actually beneficial for your health?  Feel free to start squeezing…

Quality New LELO Products. LELO is synonymous with excellent quality and being on the cutting edge of adult toy technology and pleasure. We’ve added several excellent, new products from the stylish Swedish line that is LELO and these include the:

LELO Luna Smart Bead. Your very own personal pleasure trainer! With touch-sensors that respond to your every squeeze, the LUNA Smart Bead measures your orgasm-potential and sets a routine that’s right for you. It features truly amazing technology that is perfect for the modern woman.

LELO Siri 2. The new Siri is an ultra-powerful palm-held massager that responds to ambient noise, with it being dubbed “The World's Ultimate Music Vibrator.”

LELO Ina Wave and Mona Wave. With an extraordinary “wave” function, the Ina Wave and Mona Wave feature a “come-hither” rocking mode that truly pleasures internally.

LELO Pino. A suave penis ring set which is “designed for bankers”; this luxury LELO kit features the powerful Pino Penis Ring, silver cufflinks and a money clip.

The All New Fantasy X-tension Range. Turn your penis into an instant pleasure machine thanks to this excellent new range from Pipedream Products. You’ll find penis sleeves, penis vibrators, sheaths and so much more. Reach new heights of pleasure for both you and your partner.

Classy Crave Products. Crave is the latest company that is taking the adult world by storm. At Crave they have the philosophy that sex toys should be as beautiful and sophisticated as other modern products in our life. 

We are super thrilled to be able to bring to you all of these great products and more from TENGA, Tantus, Je Joue, New Sensations Novelties and California Exotic Novelties. As always, we would like to thank our community and customers for their continued support, which allows us to do what we love, and do it with a smile. :) 

The Randy Fox team is always working hard at making the experience for those shopping with us a cut above the rest and we are super excited to announce some of what to expect in 2015!

Randy Fox is going global! We receive a lot of requests from customers outside of Australia wanting to place orders through us, and in early 2015, that will now become a reality! We don't want to give too much information about it as yet as it is top secret, but we are really excited to start servicing customers worldwide. Stay tuned for more news on the RF Global front!

New and exciting products. As always, we will be ensuring that you are getting the latest and greatest products hot off the adult industry press. We will be adding great new ranges including new products from LELO, Pipedream, Doc Johnson, Cal Exotics and many others. 

Expanding the official Randy Fox range of products. We've had some excellent, positive feedback from our customers since we have expanded the official line of RF products and will be adding even more to our collection in 2015. Remember, Randy Fox branded products are shipped on the same business day of order* and as always, we guarantee that our products are smoothly crafted and created with complete quality and your satisfaction in mind.

24/7 Customer Phone Support. Our aim in the new year is to improve our top notch customer service even more, by having our phones accessible 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. This will allow you to place phone orders or ask our friendly staff for assistance around the clock!

Nifty website improvements for a better shopping experience. As always, we are constantly sure to be updating our website with the latest tech so as to make your shopping experience even better. We have plans to improve the speed, search functionality and general layout of our site this year to make it even greater.

Once again, we would like to thank our shoppers and community for allowing us to continue to do what we love, and look forward to seeing you all again in 2015 and beyond!

We've been super busy at Randy Fox HQ over the past few months expanding our own line of official Randy Fox products, which we are now extremely excited to showcase and present to you! As always, when you see the RF stamp of approval on a product, you can be assured that it was designed and created with quality and your satisfaction in mind.

From vibrators, anal toys, strap-ons, masturbators and more, feel free to check out our RF range to see if anything tickles your fancy. Purchase any official Randy Fox branded product(s) before 3pm EST and we'll ship them on the same business day! See them all below.

2. Know your anatomy. There's a reason the prime target for impact play is the buttocks and the meaty part of the thighs, it's because they are nicely padded, you won't injure anything important by hitting them and they can take more when compared to areas such as the face, breasts or elsewhere. The back and stomach can be dangerous due to the potential to damage delicate soft organs that could lead to seriously injuring your partner. Do your research to get a better idea of the safe locations and experiment to learn what your partner appreciates most. The butt is always a safe starting point.

3. Get a feel for whatever you're doing the hitting with. If in doubt, use your hands. Spanking can go very wrong if the spanker doesn't have a feel for how hard they're hitting their partner. Sure all the toys look fantastic and exciting, but without the know-how, using them is not going to be enjoyable for everyone involved. Try it out on your thigh or your hand so you can feel what kind of swing will cause what kind of impact. A lot of items such as floggers can hit harder than you think, and long, soft/flexible spanking items are more difficult to control the intensity and location of a blow than more solid items. If you don't think you can get the hang of it on your own before your session, just take more time to practice and try again some other time.
Using your hand gives you complete control over the swing and immediate feedback for you to register how hard you're hitting without your spankee needing to speak up. You're feeling exactly how hard your hitting on your own skin and the skin of the hand is much thinner than that on places like the buttocks, so you're more likely to seriously hurt yourself before you do more damage to your partner than intended.

4. Remember before and after care. Moisturising skin before engaging in spanking can reduce the chances of breaking the skin, especially in seasons where the weather means the skin is drier. Afterwards, make sure to disinfect any cuts or even slightly broken skin, and take care of bruising or swelling with icepacks, creams, or however you prefer to reduce bruising. And never forget to take care of the spankee however they prefer to be handled after a session. Some people like to be left alone, some like to be doted on and cuddled. If you talked it all out with your partner beforehand, then you definitely should have a plan for this, physical damage is one thing, but don't forget the mental stuff just because you can't see it. Remember keep it safe, sane and consensual even if you're not in a BDSM relationship. They're good words for everybody. Enjoy!

Before anything, remember basic anal safety: go slow, use plenty of lube, and stop/slow down if it hurts. Pain is nature's way of telling you there's something wrong. The anus is much more delicate than a vagina or a penis and damage can lead to much more serious complications due to the nature of the area. Never use a toy without a hooked or flared based and never use a toy where the base is easily detached. The base prevents you from losing the toy inside yourself, and thus any embarrassing trips to the hospital! Now, for the key steps broken down.

Step 1: What kind of toy?

If you've never used an anal toy or engaged in any kind of anal play before you're going to need some self exploration. Either use your fingers or enlist the help of your partner. Take time to poke around and learn what you do and don't like here. Don't feel bad if you don't personally enjoy it, there's nothing wrong with disliking anal play and there's nothing wrong with liking it. If you don't like it, buying an anal toy probably won't change this. If you'd like to see how you feel about vibrations and have a vibe on hand, try inserting the vibrator into a condom and pressing the vibe against the anus or perineum (that bit of skin between the genitals and the anus) to stimulate the area. Don't try inserting it unless it has a base, you might lose it because condoms can be slippery.

Pros and Cons Of the Various Anal Toys.

With that little bit of exploration out of the way, you need to consider what you want the toy to do. For those more advanced users, do you just want something to wear under your clothes as a naughty little secret? Look into a basic plug with a slim comfortable flared base so it nests between your butt-cheeks without interfering with day to day activities, or maybe a wide based one to spread your butt-cheeks open under your clothes for more of a challenge. Want something to add to regular day to day sex? Look at a basic plug with some heft to it or consider anal beads, remember to make sure it can't be accidentally gobbled by your bottom beforehand. Anal plugs can make the vaginal canal feel smaller/tighter or can stimulate the prostate of male penetrating partners, and can stimulate the extra sensitive nerves of the sphincter or give you something to clench down on to add to your orgasm. Inserting anal beads can make for some fun foreplay and can also be felt through the vaginal wall, though they're at their best during insertion or removal. (Do not forcibly yank out anal beads, just don't.) Just looking to stimulate your anus? Look into anal plugs that vibrate or even dildos. Plugs will stimulate the nerves nicely but vibration isn't for everyone's butt, some will get by just fine with the feeling of a nice smooth dildo thrusting in and out. Looking for prostate stimulation? Look into the wide variety of prostate massager or dildos. Some people prefer vibrations against theirs, some like a strong thrusting against theirs, some just want a bit of pressure. There's a huge range and a lot of pieces can fill more than one need. Get a feel for where your prostate sits and pay close attention to the dimensions of the product to make sure it can work for you.

Step 2: What do you want it made of?

The big thing to remember is not all materials are right for every toy. Porous materials in an anal toy might not necessarily harm you, but they can trap odours and if you can't sterilise them you can't share them. There's nothing wrong with getting more than one toy in that case, just don't mix them up. Materials like metal, glass can be sterilised, won't trap odours if you clean them properly but they have no give to them which can make them less manageable than toys of a similar size…and they can be heavy. Materials like silicone are soft, can be sterilised, but it will retain some odours without a thorough sterilising clean every now and then. Also an unfortunate number of companies will claim non-silicone materials to be silicone, be aware, check the reviews and only buy from reputable sources. Materials like rubber, PVC and TPR are cheap and soft, but can trap odours and can't be effective sterilised so you won't want to consider sharing these no matter how hard they're cleaned. Consider using a condom while using one so they don't start to smell.

Step 3: Get shopping.

Now that you might know a bit more about what you want/need, you just need to find it. Google any item that catches your interest to see what others thought of it. If you're having trouble finding something, look for a forum, there's no shortage of people to ask and look for advice from without sharing your sex life with the whole world, someone else may have just the answer you need.

Our Randy Fox product entry and development staff have been hard at work in the past few months researching and adding some excellent new items into our catalogue; which we are super excited to present to you. With over 500 new items, some of what's new as of September 2014 includes:

All new We-Vibe 4 Plus. The No. 1 selling vibrator for couples now has an app! With the We-Vibe 4 Plus, couples can connect in brand new, exciting ways — whether they’re in the same room or on a different continent. Bringing couples closer together.

New Fun Factory Items. The popular Fun Factory Cobra Libre masturbator for men has been upgraded to feature 2 powerful motors and 11 great functions as the Cobra Libre 2. The Fun Factory Amorino is also a new, mini vibrator that features a silicone taut band that transmits the toy's vibrations allowing users to explore a variety of sensations. Check out all of our new Fun Factory items here.

Great, new Jimmyjane items. We've expanded the ever popular Jimmyjane range in our catalogue, with the additions of the Jimmyjane Form 4, Jimmyjane After Glow Massage Candle and the extravagant Jimmyjane Form 2 Luxury Edition amongst other items. See all our Jimmyjane items here.

New Line of System JO Lubricants. Award winning lubricant company System JO offers comprehensive sensual solutions to help promote, enhance and stimulate your sexual health and well-being with innovative lubricants designed with quality you can feel and trust. We are extra excited to be able to present their products to our customers. Find them here.

We are super thrilled to be able to bring to you all of these great products, including exciting quality lubricants from Sliquid, more from Tantus, New Sensations Novelties, California Exotic Novelties, Doc Johnson, Pjur and Rocks Off. As always, we would like to thank our community and customers for their continued support, which allows us to do what we love, and do it with a smile. :)

Setting the mood & the session…

For a sensate focus session, it's nice to start out by setting the mood. Create a zone where you can feel comfortable and relaxed, a warm room, comfy blankets and lighting some candles are a good way to create a sensual environment. Then you can begin by slowly undressing each other, your movements should be slow and deliberate, like you're unwrapping a precious gift. Once naked then one of you lies down in a comfortable position, this person is who we'll call the 'receiver' and the partner takes the role of the 'giver'. The giver starts by touching the receiver’s body, not attempting to specifically stimulate the receiver but aiming to explore their body, becoming aware of the different curves, warmer and cooler areas of skin, and the feel of various skin textures over different parts of the body. For the first few sessions there should be no stimulation of the genitals or breasts and no attempts to engage in sex. The aim is to focus on sensuality rather than sexuality and at communicating to your partner as to what feels good, what feels the best, as well as what doesn't feel good. This allows your partner to learn which areas are going to bring you the most pleasure as well as knowing which areas to avoid as they might not be pleasant for you.

You can make suggestions to the giver as to how much or how little pressure feels the nicest, whether you like light stroking with the fingertips or the running of a flat hand over certain areas. It’s really important to try to focus and stay in the moment and attempt to totally connect your mind with your body and experience every sensation to the fullest. After 5 or so minutes, you may then swap roles and the giver becomes the receiver and vice-versa. Following the same principles of touch and talk, you may then experience the touching aspect and learn more about your partner’s body and how best to stimulate them.

Mutual sensate focus is also a pleasurable and more intimate experience, you can touch and stroke each other simultaneously, continuing to keep the communication flowing and share in a state of heightened sensation. You can be surprisingly satisfied from a session of pure intimacy and pleasurable experiences as a session of sensate focus isn't intended to lead to sex, it's about sensation awareness, communicating and learning about giving and receiving sensual experiences.

Let things progress naturally...

After your initial few sessions you can then start to stimulate each other’s erogenous areas, the genitals, anus and breasts, keeping up the communication on what feels best. You then can begin to experiment different ways to enhance the pleasurable sensations as you come to know each other’s bodies better and how to stimulate each other in the most pleasurable ways, this can then be worked into sexual activity and intercourse and lead to further exploration and experimentation. Introducing toys to bring a different sensation to the areas you know your partner experiences the most pleasure from is a great way to experiment and always keeping the communication active. This means that the experience is consistently about mutual pleasure.

By having this new connection and knowing the areas to focus on that give your partner the most pleasure, the likelihood of orgasm increases and sex becomes such an intense, sensual, pleasurable journey with greater meaning. Openly communicating has a flow on effect that can be incorporated into and improve everyday life. From there, the possibilities are endless and it's all about keeping the momentum going. One could compare it to growing a beautiful garden. It's important to keep up the maintenance for it to stay beautiful and healthy as that's an ideal sex life, one that's beautiful and healthy.

Why does it stop?

It could be any number of reasons. Having kids is one of the big ones. It’s exhausting, especially in the first few years - and then after that, you’ve just lost the momentum after all that time and you get out of the habit. Another reason is the familiarity factor. Men especially get excited about new things - everything from new cars and motorcycles, to new women. The first time a man sees a woman without her clothes on, he gets so excited he can hardly contain himself. He’s seeing something for the first time. Even if he’s been with dozens of women, he’s seeing you for the first time, and that’s exciting. Seeing you naked for the hundredth time is still great, but he knows what to expect. The newness has worn off.

How do we counter that? The obvious answer is to keep it new. Yes, he knows what you look like naked, but he doesn’t know how you look in that brand new sexy lingerie piece you just bought. Sex is visual - especially for men. When it comes to the ladies, women often love a bit of extra thought, so being “thoughtful” when it comes to your partner and their needs goes a long way. Take your time when it comes to being intimate; foreplay goes a long way to ensuring sexual satisfaction. You could even spice things up with a couple's vibrator or play toy, and there are plenty out there to keep things interesting!

Finding the time.

Sometimes is just about finding enough time. Work, children, and everything else seem to get in the way. When you just started going out, the phrase, “let’s go to bed” had a whole different meaning. Now, it just means you’re tired. This is where the date night and the vacations come in. Yes, it’s always great to be spontaneous, but there comes a time when that spontaneity just won’t come because of your busy schedules, so you have to incorporate a little planning into your sex lives. “Date night” sounds old and hackneyed, and there’s even a movie with Steve Carell and Tina Fey about a boring middle-aged couple who have boring date nights until they get caught up in an adventure. But the date night doesn’t have to be forced - take it for what it is and enjoy it. Use it to go different places (don’t go to the same restaurant and order the same food every time!). Check into a nice hotel, even though you’re still close to home. Try to keep it different and exciting every time.

Be like the French.

Vacations too are always wonderful, especially if you can manage it without the kids for a few days. Many Aussies are some of the worst offenders when it comes to skimping on vacation days. The French of course take the prize, with something like 37 vacation days a year on average.  Maybe that’s why they’re so romantic! Not much work gets done there, but we would wager that there might well be a whole lot more sex going on than any place else in the world!

Why Breasts Are Sensitive.

The erogenous zones are areas of the body that have heightened sensitivity. Stimulating these hot spots can result in greater sexual excitement and more powerful orgasms. Scientifically speaking, the reason why the breasts are so sensitive is because of Golgi-Mazzoni, Vater-Pacini and genital corpuscles located in the areola and nipple. There are also higher concentrations of nerve endings in the breasts as well as sensitive nerve tissue in the muscle and ducts. When a woman’s nipples are aroused chemical changes occur. Higher levels of oxytocin and prolactin are produced and this has a significant effect on a woman’s genital area.

Now you know the sciencey part! In fact, Dr. Barry Komisaruk representing Rutgers University conducted a study of 11 women and their brain activity, after self-stimulation. Fondling the nipples actually activated the same brain activity as vaginal and clitoral stimulation. The May 2006 issue of The Journal of Sexual Medicine uncovered similar findings; their study found that over 80% of women stated that breast stimulation enhanced their sexual satisfaction. All of this runs contrary to some of the assumptions made by sex researcher Alfred Kinsey who suggested that breast stimulation was overestimated. Guys, we hope you’re paying attention!

Make Breasts Part of Foreplay.

Sex counsellors often advise lovers to prolong the foreplay, which often includes breast stimulation, before proceeding on to oral sex or penetration. In fact, more than a few women have actually reported having breast orgasms! Indeed, the current consensus in sexology research is that orgasms are mental processes, not strictly related to bodily functions. If you’re interested in giving your woman multiples then by all means, try to stimulate her all over the body, focusing on each of those erogenous zones. Aim to increase the foreplay, because you’re not merely postponing sexual activity—this is a form of sex too. Besides, paying more attention to a woman’s breasts in love play can help extend your overall lovemaking time, making staying power less of an issue.

The sexual potential of breasts and nipples are one reason why sex toy makers often feature breast toys. These can range from subtle and innocent (say, smaller breast vibrators) to the wacky and wild (nipple clamps, nipple jewellery and electronic “suckers”). If you do go down the toy route, remember to start slow with the gentlest toys first, so that you don’t scare your partner off or hurt her sensitive spots by accident. Some clamps are very sharp and are not for newcomers to sex toys. Your best bets are suckers, vibrators or little plastic teasers. Regardless of what you choose, remember the breasts! These are the fun bags you’ve been staring at for so long…it might just be time to give them the appreciation they deserve!

Delightful Expectations.

Let's be realistic, your honeymoon night probably isn't going to be your first time together, but that doesn't mean it has to be boring. Even if you are already old hands at sex and know what pleases one another, your honeymoon will still bring in a whole new element to your sexual lives together. You have, maybe for the first time, an extended period of time during which you are free from your other daily obligations, when you can explore to your heart's content, and have as much sex as you like, any time of the day or night. And because of this new freedom the honeymoon brings, it is still a "first" of sorts even if you've already had sex together a hundred times before. This will give you time to do some exploration, and really get to know one another in the deepest sense.

Introducing the Idea of Sex Toys.

Your honeymoon is no time to be shy. If you've never experimented with sex toys with your loved one before, now might just be the perfect time to start - if you're afraid to bring it up now, then you never will! First of all, don't assume that your partner will reject the idea; chances are they have already thought about it too. If it's a whole new concept for the two of you, try the "special basket" approach. On your first night, put together a special basket of toys and sexy games. Pair it with something special to eat, such as some fresh strawberries, chocolate and champagne. Believe it or not, some of the most erotic sex toys aren't made of plastic or silicone - rather, they are things you eat and drink. Foods can be extremely erotic, and there's nothing like starting your sexy night by feeding each other fresh berries and sipping a little wine (but not too much!). There are even specialised Couple's Kits that come with goodies pre-selected, so there's no guess work. It's not that great of a leap to go from licking whipped cream off of each other's most intimate body parts, to breaking out a special toy to make your pleasure go to the next level.

What Should We Include?

Now that you've gotten over that initial psychological hurdle, it's time to make up that special "pleasure basket." Just to make it seem special, decorate that basket with a little bow, and be sure to put your special foods (berries, wine, whipped cream) in there too, just to get things started. Don't be disappointed if your partner doesn't want to try every toy in the box, but at the same time, be prepared, and get a good combination. Chances are, your partner will have already thought of sexy underwear, but include something that excites you in the basket as well, so you can model something new for each other on your special night.

Now after the food and the clothes, we get to the hardware – ideally, you'll want a couple’s toy, but remember that each person's body reacts differently, and these things come in all shapes and sizes. If you're not absolutely sure what type of device your partner prefers, or if you've never used them before, get a good selection and let your partner select one to get things started. Get an appropriate lubricant to go with them (water-based lubricant for silicone devices, for example), and if you have one of the more exotic devices, don't forget the instructions. When your partner asks you, "Where does that thing go?" you will want to have an answer. And finally, don't forget the games, many of which can give you suggestions and encourage you to try things that you haven't yet considered. Most of all, happy honeymoon, and have fun!

Our Randy Fox product entry and development staff have been hard at work in the past few months researching and adding some excellent new items into our catalogue; which we are excited to present to you. Some of the what's new as of June 2014 includes:

Upgraded Items In The We-Vibe Range. We are now happy to be able to offer you the new range of updated We-Vibe products including the We-Vibe Touch USB, We-Vibe 2 Plus USB and the We-Vibe Tango USB. They all now feature more power when compared to their original counterparts, low-power alert indicators and a slightly improved velvety silicone feel. 

New Pipedream Items. The excellent, new Real Feel Deluxe Range from Pipedream has hit our catalogue. They feature an amazing real feel and look, patented strong wallbanger suction cup technology and sensual vibrational functionality. We've also added products to the classy bondage line that is the Fetish Fantasy Gold Range, as well as the Metal Worx Line. 

New California Exotic Lines. Reality Star Coco Austin has teamed up with California Exotic Novelties to create the sophisticated "Coco Licious" sex toys range. They feature bold massagers and discreet vibrators that are sure to please. We are also happy to introduce the "Apollo" Range, which includes classy items for the modern man.

As always, we have expanded existing brands as well, with new kinky items from Sportsheets, Seven 'til Midnight, Doc Johnson and Tantus. Don't forget to keep your eye on the Randy Fox Latest Products section, which we are always updating with the latest in the adult toy space. We hope you enjoy them as much as we enjoy presenting them to you. :)

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It won't fit!

Chances are, yes, it will. But beginners should go for a smaller variety, and many anal sex toys are shaped specifically for this purpose, with a small circumference often narrowed at the end so it goes in easy. Once you get used to the idea, you'll be surprised at the size of sex toys you can use.

It hurts!

Not if you do it right. Once again, use smaller toys specifically designed for anal play, start slow, and don't rush things. Use lubrication - more than you would usually use for penetrating the vagina, since there isn’t much natural lubrication inside the rectum. The tissue inside the rectum is very sensitive, and using anal sex toys without lubrication is generally a bad idea. Lubrications made specifically for anal play are best; these lubes tend to be a bit thicker in consistency.

It's only something for the “non straight”…

That couldn't be further from the truth. Pleasure is pleasure, no matter who's doing it to whom, and who is putting what where. Men of all sexual persuasions often find stimulation of the prostate to be intensely pleasurable at times, and women will also often enjoy anal sex toys as another excellent type of pleasure. More research is being discovered that actually links good prostate health to a happier overall lifestyle.

It's just like penetrating a woman's vagina.

The vagina has natural lubrication; the rectum has little to none. Also, you have more play space in the vagina, and the muscles can be looser. Inside the rectum, there are muscles that tighten up, and it takes a lot more patience than vaginal play. If you're inserting a sex toy, you have to go very slowly, don't force it, and don't use hard, fast thrusts. If what you're doing is painful, you're not doing it right

Playing with anal toys is too messy.

Well first of all, good sex is always a little messy, but we know what you're getting at here. There's no reason you or your partner should have to deal with excrement. A good practice is to have a shower and have a good bowel movement beforehand, and watch what you eat that day - a big bowl of chilli is probably not a good idea! If you have a normal bowel movement, you should be fairly clean and won't have to worry about it.

It will cause incontinence.

This is a major misconception, and one that is not true at all. The anus is after all, just a muscle. Playing with anal sex toys just exercises the muscles in that particular area of your body, that's all - and there are no studies to show that is causes incontinence later on.

When using anal adult toys, people often keep a closed mind without even knowing much about anal play. We hope this list has cleared a few of the more common misconceptions involved with Anal Sex Toys and anal play!

Enter the excellent range of Fukuoku Massage Gloves and Fingertip Vibrators. More than just simple sex massage toys, the Fukuoku Massage Glove offers sensual and legitimate massage therapy, offering up to 45,000 vibrations every minute. Nearly every centimetre of these specially designed gloves buzz and vibrate: including the palm and each of the five individual fingertips. Made of a hybrid Lycra-nylon material, the glove is stretchable to conform to just about any user's hands.

With the recent expansion of the Fukuoku Range in our Randy Fox catalogue, we thought we would give a quick bit of information on these excellent and unique series of hand massagers, including tips and benefits of their use.

Benefits & Applications: Multiple Ways to Use the Fukuoku Massage Glove

Personal Self-Exploration.
When alone, the Fukuoku Massage Glove becomes another self-pleasure toy for either a man or a woman. It can be used to stimulate the penis, scrotum, clitoris, labia or breasts. Besides those erotic zones, the glove can be used on sensitive areas like the inner thigh and behind the knee. As a tip, rather than use the glove for just orgasm, consider using it to develop sensual awareness by moving it all over the body softly and learning what places are your most sensitive. Learn how different parts of the glove feel distinctly different on certain areas. This can increase overall sexual responsiveness. 

Foreplay With A Lover.
It's hard to massage the back and shoulders while alone, so the Fukuoku Massage Glove is a great sensual aid to introduce to a lover during foreplay. Each can take turns massaging the other, although some couples prefer to keep two pairs of gloves available for simultaneous massages. Use the massage time to learn the uncommon places where your mate likes to be tickled and caressed; this can bring couples closer together. 

Water Play.
The waterproof nature of the glove allows it to be used in the bath, shower, hot tub or pool. With its battery pack tucked under the sleeve of the glove near the wrist, users can completely submerge their hands for underwater massages and explosive underwater experiences.

Stress Relief.
For those looking after a sensual feeling of muscle relief, the Fukuoku Massage Glove can provide release for calf muscles, back muscles and tired shoulders. In addition to target areas, the glove can also be used for a full body massage. Users can use a kneading motion, although the glove provides the best relief when users simply allow the vibrators to work while the hand move gently over the body without applying pressure. This also protects hands from exhaustion and allows for longer massages. The waterproof material allows the massage gloves to work well with lubricants or massage oils, allowing you to add soothing aromatherapy and tingling sensations to the massage experience.

Give yourself or your partner a sensual massage today thanks to the superb range of Fukuoku hand and finger massagers and gloves.

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In a fun and quirky quick bit of news, we’ve found that’s just what Dutch researchers learned during a study at a University in Holland. Now, whilst it may seem a valid experiment, they weren’t necessarily setting out to study the effects of warm feet on orgasms. But in much the same way that Sir Alexander Fleming discovered penicillin entirely by accident, if perhaps slightly less significant for the survival of humankind, these scientists found that when they gave socks to their research subjects, those subjects achieved orgasm at a rate of about 80 percent! In contrast, the sock-free orgasm rate was a mere 50 percent.

So, what can we take away from this inadvertent and interesting discovery? As is so often the case, what looks sexy doesn’t always turn out to ignite the passions as much as we’d think, and something we might be quick to dismiss could be just the thing to take our sex life to a whole new level. Instead of acting on preconceived notions about what is and isn’t spicy, it is often worthwhile to find out what we really do enjoy. Speculation also has that it could also to do with just “being comfortable”, and socks provide great comfort and warmth to those little fingers on the end of our feet. In the meantime, if you’ve ever given a lover the cold shoulder for a sock-wearing infraction, it might just be time to call him or her up and see what it would take to work your way back into that person’s good graces!

The purpose of the cock ring was originally to slow down the flow of blood from the erect penile tissue.  When the blood flow is slowed, a man’s erection can stay hard and last longer. However, cock rings are not only used for sexual dysfunction.  They can also be used for good, clean fun.  Plenty of men simply enjoy the sensations a cock ring brings them; it feels tight and leads to heavy engorgement and often what can be described as “more intense orgasms”.  Some people merely enjoy the way a cock ring looks and may wear it as “genital jewellery.”  Cock rings are used in masturbation and used by heterosexual and gay couples alike.
 

Now, you might think that the cock ring is such a simplistic device that there wouldn’t be much variety to choose from.  Wrong!  There is a wide variety of cock rings to select, and we’re not just talking about different colours.  There are cock rings that vibrate, cock rings that simultaneously massage a woman’s clitoris, cock rings that fit snugly around both the penis shaft and the scrotum, rings made specifically for erectile dysfunction (with a penis pump), and cock rings made from different types of material.  Depending on what material is used, these rings can give very different sensations.  There are rings made from leather, rubber, silicone, nylon, metal and plastic. The options are vast.

No matter what cock ring you choose, you are sure to have hours of fun—if you and your partner can take an hours-long session!  Just use common sense for safety.  If you wear the ring too long and it starts to hurt, take it off.  Otherwise, there is no health risk.  Cock rings are a wonderful way to spice up your sex life.  It’s time to tell your partner, “I meant put on your other ring!”

The LELO Tiani 3 and LELO Hula Beads. The Tiani 3 is the new and enhanced version of LELO’s original Red Dot Design Award-winning massager for couples. Designed to be worn whilst making love, the LELO Tiani 3 features more power, full waterproof exterior and newly contoured design. The LELO Hula Beads are another exciting addition, touted as the world’s first remote-controlled pleasure beads that rotate and vibrate at the same time. Super powerful and wirelessly controlled, they are sure to be a firm favourite amongst adult toy users who are both experienced or starting out.

Great, new Jimmyjane items. We have received a great response from our customers regarding the Jimmyjane products in our catalogue, so we have expanded our line with 2 great additions, which are the Jimmyjane Iconic Rabbit Vibrator and the Jimmyjane Form 3 Massager. Both feature the sleek design and excellent functionality which has become synonymous with JimmyJane adult products.

We have also expanded and introduced excellent new products into our Fukuoku Massage Range, with 4 new finger massagers. These include the Fukuoku 12K; known as the world’s first, smallest and most powerful fingertip massager. Perfect in time for a sensual massage on Valentine’s day perhaps?

We are super thrilled to be able to bring to you all of these great products, including more from Tantus, Doc Johnson, Bijoux Indiscrets, Shots Toys and Empire Laboratories (welcome to the Chocolate Clone-a-Willy!). As always, we would like to thank our community and customers for their continued support, which allows us to do what we love, and do it with a smile. :)

Whilst the opinions were split down the middle, with some for and some against, sexologist Nikki Goldstein argued that grocery stores already support safe sex through the sale and distribution of condoms and lubricants, ''so why shouldn't they also promote pleasurable sex through sex toys?”

After their decision to discontinue the Durex Vibrating Bullet in question, a Woolworths spokesperson stated, “This is a product that is more appropriate for pharmacies than supermarkets.'' It could well be that we just aren’t ready yet, but the question then raised is, when will be ready?

Walgreens Pharmacies in the United States are amongst the few pharmacy chains that now retail vibrators and other adult toys in a number of their stores, with their slogan stating “at the corner of happy and healthy”. Are our pharmacies soon to follow suit here for us Aussies perhaps?  

At Randy Fox, we definitely are firm believers of taking away the stigma that is associated with the whole adult toy industry, and would love to see local pharmacies (of course, as long as the items are in a respectable area that is over 18 restricted) spreading the messages of greater sexual health, wellness and happiness. The industry has changed a lot and now focuses more tastefully than ever on sexual health and happiness, so we feel it would definitely be a move in the right direction. The jury remains out at this stage, but it is an interesting topic nonetheless. We would love to hear your thoughts, feel free to send us an email or comment below.

Why Do Modern Vibrators Work So Well?

Today’s vibrators are ingeniously made and are designed from a sex therapist’s point of view.  There are two major spots for women during sex that require direct stimulation.  These two most famous zones of the erogenous zones diagram are the clitoris and the G-spot, or for the science buffs out there: the Grafenberg spot, which is located within the anterior of the vaginal canal.  A man or woman may be able to locate this patch of ribbed rough tissue (which feels like a raspberry) by finger insertion.

“G-spot vibrators” are designed to reach this spot, based (on average) on where most women say the area is located.  Bear in mind that many women are not aware of where the spot is or how to stimulate it properly.  Voila, enter the G-spot vibrator!  While there is no universal law that suggests every woman responds to G-spot stimulation (in fact, some sexologists and therapists argue its existence) women who do respond to this stimulation are enthusiastic believers.

Superior Quality Vibrators Combine Power and Innovative Design

Effective G-spot vibrators must be slightly angled so that they reach the G-spot without causing discomfort or requiring special positioning.  A relatively new trend in vibrators, that is very effective according to orgasming users, is to make the head of the phallus thicker, even beyond that of a normal size penis.  This not only simulates realistic entry, but also provides the sensation of a larger entry. The average vibrator is over 20 Centimetres long (in its entirety) and about 3.5 to 4 Centimetres thick. But they do come in all shapes and sizes to suit your needs.  There is a wide variety of vibrators available, and only each individual user can determine what really works. 

It is vital that newcomers to sex toys, particularly a woman who has never had an orgasm or who has very weak ones, experiment with a vibrator to see what type of stimulation causes the most intense reaction. When looking at a G-spot vibrator, notice the number of speeds the unit operates at, as well as any special rotating action, multispeed and multifunction capabilities.  The G-spot vibrator is the fastest and easiest way to have an orgasm, but don’t take our word for it, see for yourself if you please! It’s also a must-have educational adult toy, of great interest to single women and married couples alike.

Be Supportive

Clichés aside, this really does happen to almost everyone. Don’t assume that his flaccidness means that he’s not interested in you. In fact, his anxiety over pleasing you might have caused the problem in the first place! In any case, don’t make a big deal out of it. If he makes excuses or apologizes, be reassuring but not condescending. Ask him if there is something he’d like to do differently. Sometimes this is the case, and the problem is solved. More often, though, his body simply isn’t cooperating. In such cases, the two of you may have to try a few tricks to get him going again.

Go Slowly

Try restarting your foreplay. Moving slowly and teasing your guy can restore the mood and help him forget his embarrassment. Kiss his neck and work your way back over his body, nibbling his earlobes, toying with his nipples, and maybe even gently raking your fingernails over his ribs. When you get down to his groin, try teasing him until he begs for release. Slowly and gently kiss and lick his thighs, moving gradually inward. Many men like having their testicles played with as well. Further, remember that you can still give oral to a flaccid or semi-flaccid penis; just focus more on mouthing and licking his penis instead of sucking or pumping.

Try Something New

Trying something a little different might get your man back in the game. If he’s up for it, blindfold him or tie his wrists, then tease him by flicking a feather or a scarf softly over his prone body. Penis rings are also a highly underrated tool and are actually designed to help men maintain their erections by preventing blood from draining out of his penis.

Of course, sometimes human bodies just don’t do what we want them to do. If the two of you have tried your best and things still aren’t working, sometimes it’s best to simply take a break, and try again later. If all else fails and that doesn't work, try visiting a GP or health physician, they might be able to offer alternative solutions that can help.

Our Randy Fox team is continuing to work hard throughout the Chrissy period and beyond to bring to you an even greater user and shopping experience. We are super excited to announce some of what to expect in 2014!

As per always, we will continue to offer the best prices guaranteed coupled with tip top customer service, but here's a few new things that our Randy Fox community can expect in early 2014 and beyond.

Faster web surfing experience. Our IT team has been working hard at tweaking the performance of our site, having moved it to a larger and more powerful web server as well as several other nifty performance upgrades that will make our pages load super fast.

Better navigational filtering on category pages. We've had some great feedback from our community, so we've worked at making filtering on category pages easier to understand and much quicker to load.

New Categories and better organisation on current categories. Our product experts have been going through our extensive catalogue of 5,000 plus products to ensure that everything is categorised correctly and we will also be adding new categories for an even better searching experience. These include "Hollow Strap On Kits", "Life-Like Love Dolls", "Dildo Harness Kits" amongst others.

Better search functionality. We will be incorporating our search bar to also include Blog Posts, categories, brands and other content on our site, allowing you to find exactly what you are looking for with much more ease.

New and exciting products. We will be adding great new ranges including new products from LELO, including the Tiani 3 and Hula Beads, Ceramix Pleasure Pottery; incredible sex toys hand-crafted from Ceramic materials that will change your perception of pleasure, and expanding on our Fetish And Anal Fantasy collections amongst others.

Once again, we would like to thank our shoppers and community for allowing us to continue to do what we love, and look forward to seeing you all again in 2014 and beyond!

Overview/Why I wanted to try this toy:

I am a real stickler for rechargeable and waterproof because it makes life so much easier, you don’t have to worry about batteries (I have bought the wrong batteries for a toy before and blown the motor) and you aren’t going to accidently ruin your toy when you are washing it (which I have also done to another vibrator, it no longer vibrates). So having an idiot proof toy essentially which the Stronic Zwei is great. Also I have a butt plug which I think is 1.9 inches in diameter which find is a great size for myself personally. A lot of anal toys are fairly small for my standards but I understand why though. The Zwei is a nice 1.7inches which from other reviews I’ve seen online is a bit of a problem to fit anally even vaginally for some (this is a non-gender specific toy. The Zwei has an insertable length of 4 inches, I have found 6inches is probably my max depth without causing discomfort so the length sounds great, it should hit the p-spot which is usually only a couple inches deep anyway.

First Impressions and Use:
The Zwei comes in 2 colours, jeans blue and black. I chose the jeans blue because most of my toys are black and it actually looks nice. So when the Zwei finally arrived I was excited, I straight away put it on charge and had a look at the packaging and looked at the instruction manual. The packaging is quite nice; I would say it is gift able. It is a solid box instead of some cheap plastic that you can’t re-use. I was slightly disappointed it didn’t come with carry pouch to protect it from dust and make it a bit less obvious to prying eyes. The instruction manual is fairly bad, lots of pictures which I guess is good as their universal but I wasn’t really sure how long I was meant to charge it before use. So after a couple hours I took it off charge and turned it on (note: it won’t turn on while connected to the charger). I was amazed as I saw it moving forward and backwards in a thrusting motion.

Performance:
When I first used the Zwei, I used it in the bath (The Stronic Zwei is fully water proof, which is fantastic). This made it a little difficult as the water would wash away the lube and the anus isn’t self-lubricating. You really need to lube up well, the silicon un-lubed drags a lot. Silicon is great because it is body safe, toxin free and non-porous, so it is easy to clean. It was a little difficult to insert all the way at first, even for me. If you are experienced in anal you should still be patient with this toy and slowly work up to the whole toy. Your patience will be greatly rewarded. (Please note this is not a beginner’s toy). When I finally got the whole toy inside me, ironically with the Zwei thrusting it was difficult to keep in place and stop it from falling out, I don’t think the bottom tapered enough or I wasn’t able to get it 100% in I don’t know.

The weight of the Zwei seems to make it difficult to keep in as well. If you do find that sweet spot, which you will with a bit of manoeuvring or after a couple uses it is an absolutely fantastic toy. If you have a look of videos online of the Zwei moving you will see how it is like no other toy out there. The Zwei is truly a unique toy and I am so happy to see such innovation in such a flooded market. Nearly forgot to mention that it is really quiet so you can use this toy with paper thin walls. Just find an empty room because you might need some room to manoeuvre yourself and get into position. Alternatively make sure your room mate is asleep or won’t see you. Please Note: My Girlfriend tried this toy vaginally it seemed a little awkward although this toy is meant to be gender specific. She isn’t a size queen and doesn’t usually like big toys. Although I think the other toys in the Stronic range are better suited for vaginal use. Some people say it was good for clitoral and perineum stimulation, neither of us found this to be true. It is really for prostate stimulation and can be used for g-spot stimulation.

Feel:
At first I had a little difficulty inserting it all the way, I just got up to the front of the “knot” at the end. I turned it on and wow I could feel the wave go through what felt like my whole body. At this point it was a bit touch and go sensation wise, it was difficult manoeuvring it into place. I turned the toy off; lubed up a bit more and pushed it all the way in. I haven’t had any real experience with hooked (g-spot) shaped toys before and found it a bit odd to manoeuvre first time around. I finally managed to squeeze it all in then I turned it back on it and just wow it felt incredible being filled up, have it thrusting and waves moving through you is just amazing. I have to say I have never climaxed solely from prostate or anal stimulation and this toy didn’t achieve that (it did feel amazing and did increase the intensity of my orgasm). If you are really into anal sex and you know that you can climax from anal stimulation alone, this toy might just do that. This toy is great because you just insert it, lay back and let it do all the work.

Purchasing:
If you purchase this toy, invest in a high quality water based (non-water based lubes such as silicon lube will damage your silicon toys) anal lube. I find some lubes can be a little irritating with anal use. I found the “Soothe anti-bacterial Anal lubricant” by Intimate Organics to be really good. Make sure you use lots of lube as well, the silicon can be draggy if not lubed properly, re-apply as needed especially during periods of extended use, so you don’t experience any irritation.

So what does this all mean? The short version:
This product is great but is quite large so not for the novice. It is 100% waterproof and rechargeable which is amazing. It is like nothing I have ever seen before and I absolutely love the creativity and engineering that went in to this product. I absolutely recommend this product it provides great prostate/anal stimulation. If you have tried vibrators and aren’t fully satisfied or are looking for something new the Fun Factory Stronic Zwei is a must. I have been writing this article over a fair amount of time and my opinion and understanding of this toy has changed. I have found that this isn’t an “every day” toy or something I would use regally because you need a decent amount of time alone to really enjoy it and personally I really need to be in the mood to be filled up and have my anus stimulated. But when I’m in that mood and have that time, boy does it do the job well.

Final Thoughts
My final thought it the pulsation is amazing as it can be hard to position and get it into that perfect spot and holding it just the right way. As annoying as this maybe seem the more you use it the better you will get at getting it in to position. But if it just isn’t your time to find that magical spot the Stronic Zwei works fantastically as a simply butt plug or prostate toy. The only really down fall is its size, I mean I love the size I think it is perfect but I can totally see the average person struggling. Even with the size and the “learning curb” I would still give this toy a 4 out of 5, it literally hits all the right spots and it won’t break down any time soon.

Well, let's re-think that position. She may want something like a vibrator, and she may even use them regularly, but it's probably a bit over the top for a first-time sex gift. How do you work up to giving her a sexy gift? If the last gift you bought her was a toaster, chances are you're not still with her. If you are, win for you, but now it's time to move on to the next level. Now we aren't experts by any means, but we like to think that there are three phases in presenting your lovely lady with special, sexy gifts.

Phase one - Something Romantic

The first presents should be intimate but not the over-the-top "let's have sex right now" types. Think romance. Scents are sexy, and they make her feel sexy, and that's what you want. Something special like theatre tickets, or a special weekend at a five-star hotel also speaks volumes about your intentions.

Phase two - Something Sexy

Once you've presented her with a few romantic gifts, your gift-giving has shifted to a more personal space. She has come to expect something intimate and romantic, but you're ready for more. You're not quite ready for sex toys yet, but you are ready to take it to the next level. Personal, fun board games that end in sex, or some special "edible" lubricant that tastes like strawberries can become part of the scene now. Sensual Body toppings, paints and powders might also tickle your fancy. If you've enjoyed role-playing games, special "play clothes" can come into the gift-giving picture, and that naughty schoolgirl fantasy of yours may become a reality. It’s all about enjoying yourselves and being on the same page. These gifts are great because both of you get involved, and they often strengthen relationships and communication.

Phase three - Something More Interesting?

Depending on how Phase Two went, you would have now tested the waters, and seen what sort of reaction something like a sensual, edible lubricant or sexy game would get. You now have a sense for what sort of reaction something like an adult toy may provide, after all, you might just have snuck the idea into conversation by this stage. A nifty little mini vibrator or something else that gets her buzzing (pun intended) could well be the “go to gift”, now that you are more comfortable with each other. Another great idea is a couple's sex toy, such as the We-Vibe 4 (which has just hit Aussie shores) or the Lelo Tiani 2, which you can both enjoy together. Above all, enjoy yourselves and have fun with it, after all, a healthy sex life between you and your partner leads to better overall happiness, which shines through in all aspects of your life. :)

We've just launched a fully fledged mobile compatible website, making us one of the few adult stores in Australia to do so thus far. What it all means: If you visit us on a mobile phone or tablet PC, you get served a super quick, easy to navigate, feature rich experience that is catered for ease of use and an excellent experience every time.

Our little team of web staff have been hard at work over the past few months coding and designing away in their labs, and we are super happy and excited to present to you the result.

Have a browse of Randy Fox on your mobile phone or tablet PC and feel free to let us know what you think! Once again, we would like to thank our community and users; you make doing what we love extra special and allow us to spread the message of great sexual health and wellness information coast to coast.

Glass has an ambience and a mythology all on its own, and in recent times, it has translated to sexual pleasure. The use of glass as a material for sex toy design is becoming increasingly popular, and it’s no secret why. Touted as products that can “last a lifetime”, Glass Dildos and similar Glass sex toys are as functional as they are beautiful.

Now, your first question will be whether or not they are safe. To answer that question: yes indeed, they are very safe. The glass used for sex toys isn’t the same type of glass used for windows, or kitchenware - rather, it’s borosilicate, which is an extremely durable and shatter-resistant material. You may have some of this material in your kitchen - it’s also known as Pyrex. Who knew, back in the 1800’s when this marvellous material was invented that it would find its way out of the kitchen and into the bedroom? Don’t worry, it’s perfectly safe, and they’re a lot more common than most people realise. Another benefit of course, is that glass dildos are extremely easy to clean and are non-porous, so no nasty bacteria can call the surface home if cleaned properly.

If you enjoy visually attractive designs for your dildos, then glass will produce some of the most amazingly artistic sex toys on the market. In the world of art, glass is a wonderful medium for colour and design, and the same is true in the world of adult toys and products.

Perhaps one of the most unique features of Glass dildos is that they can often be warmed up or cooled down for unbelievable erotic sensations! Simply heat them with hot water or cool them in the fridge for a different experience. Another big advantage is the smoothness. They’re very smooth and slick, which when combined with the rigid nature of the glass dildo, makes for an exciting and pleasurable encounter. The smooth factor that is inherent to a glass dildo also means that you won’t always need lubricant. It's clear to see, Glass sex toys are gaining popularity worldwide, and with good reason.

October is officially Australia’s Breast Cancer Awareness Month, so we thought we would take some time out and help do our part in spreading the message.

It is an important period on our calendar as it gives us all an opportunity to raise awareness about this disease, which remains as one of the most common types of cancer amongst Australian women. With awareness and by working together, we can help save lives.

It is estimated that 1 in 8 women will develop breast cancer in their lifetime (and about 1 in 700 men), but the key to greater chances of survival are often early diagnosis and subsequent treatment. We can all help make a difference, it could be something as simple as seeking medical advice as soon as you notice a change in your breasts, wearing official pink gear, spreading the word, or donating to the National Breast Cancer Foundation.

Once again, we would like to thank our community and customers for their continued support of Randy Fox, and together, we can make a difference.

It’s a common scenario, so don’t feel like you are alone. There’s nothing greater than having children, but does it have to spell the end of our sex lives? Surely not!

The End Perhaps?

Once you and your partner have children, what usually goes first is your sex life.  It’s something everyone enjoys and yet sometimes is perceived as the least important factor in a happy marriage once a couple has children.  It’s not!  While sex isn’t the most important thing in your life, it’s far from the least important thing when you put everything into perspective, which is an important step to bringing back some of the marriage spark.  A sexless marriage can result in strained relationships, intense confrontation, boredom or even thoughts or actions of infidelity.  Ignoring your lack of sexual fulfilment, figuring you’re a full time parent now, is at worst a downward spiral into relationship destruction, and at best, a sad way to end a wonderful romance. Instead of chalking up your lack of passion to a side effect of having children, why not instead confront the issue and work at a resolution that will make you and your partner happy? 

Make Time for Love.

Avoiding the parent trap is all a matter of effective scheduling.  Just as you have to plan for vacations and plan for a new exercise routine, so too you have to plan a better sex life.  This doesn’t necessarily mean that you have to plan a set day and time to do the deed, as that can seem unromantic.  However, it does mean that you should prepare for possible interruptions. For one, do not let your children overstep their boundaries and take control of your life. Seems like a simple enough rule, but one that is often forgotten. If children interrupting your intimacy is becoming a problem, then arrange for some partner time, after all there’s nothing wrong with having your kids looked after by someone you trust every once in a while. This could mean either a babysitter or a close relative.  After all, most family members jump at the chance!  This will allow you to be with your mate in a romantic context, free from worry and stress.  You can have a romantic dinner and let the night take its course.  You don’t necessarily lose the spontaneity; instead, you lose the distraction.

You Can Have Better Sex and a Happy Family Life!

When your kids are at home, make sure that they have regular bed times, and encourage them as often as possible to sleep in their own beds.  Children must learn a pattern of bedroom etiquette; not only to ensure your privacy, but so they can slowly learn how to function as adults over time.  As for waking up the children, you have two options: keep it quiet or invest in soundproof walls! You can also install a lock on the door (of either a bedroom or bathroom) and have some private fun.  If you need some “encouragement” or are feeling awkward about getting “back onto the saddle” then feel free to pick up an adult toy or mood setter from our vast selection. Many couples often find an adult toy is just what they need to provide a fresh perspective, and with the vast array available these days, you’re sure to never run out of fresh ideas!  You can store these toys under lock and key and use them anywhere—even in the shower or tub!

In the end, it’s all about dedicating some time to yourselves and not forgetting the reason you fell in love in the first place.  You want to raise your children right and so you make time for them.  Likewise, if you want to keep your sex life red hot, you must make time for it and make it right.  Why not have the best of both worlds and keep things interesting! :)

The LELO Ida: Touted as the World's First Couple's Massager that both Rotates and Vibrates. This thrilling remote controlled couple's massager provides unique sensations, and as always features a smooth silicone design.

The LELO Gigi 2: The latest version of the popular LELO Gigi, with over 100% more power and a slightly softer silicone exterior when compared to the original model. The colour Grey has also been added to the collection. Sure to become a firm favourite amongst those seeking G-Spot pleasure.

The LELO Liv 2: An improvement on the original LELO Liv, with 100% more power as with the GIGI 2, as well as a fully waterproof design. A Plum version of the LELO Liv 2 is also now available, making this mid-sized vibrator a popular choice for beginners.

From Dildo to Vibrator - The “Painful” Origins...

First, technology had to grow.  Therefore, we surpassed ages of dildos made out of stone (ouch), wood, leather and other unsexy objects.  Primitive names for these toys included “olisbos” and “dilettos.”  It wasn’t until human-kind first invented the idea of the “comfortable” sex toy, that vibrators could actually be studied, theorised and introduced.  Original dildos or “dilettos” were still grating to the skin, even after the discovering of sexual lubricant (or olive oil, to be precise).

It wasn’t until the Victorian Era that comfy dildos were first introduced into hush-hush society.  Rubber dildos debuted in the 1850s, and not too long after, mechanical vibrators were introduced.  We know what you’re thinking!  “Are you saying that Victorian society was actually that horny and were hiding their kinks behind those long queenly dresses?” Actually, your suspicion is well founded. These dildos were made, not really for the pleasure of women, but for the treatment of women suffering from female “hysteria.”  The recommended treatment for this alarming case of mental dysfunction?  An orgasm!  A rather brilliant deduction, we say!

The First Vibrators - Changing Styles and Views...

The first vibrator was actually powered by steam, and was meant only to take some pressure off the doctor who would give hysterical female patients manual genital massages. Interesting no? By the early 1900s, the first electromechanical vibrator was introduced, and it wouldn’t be until the 1960s that a cordless vibrator debuted. Of course, by the 1900s, society let up on women a bit, and dildos and vibrators began appearing in women’s magazines and in erotic films.  The 1940s and onward brought an age of conservatism to society, which almost ended in the 1960s, but went on until at least the 1980s, when many women and men legitimised adult products for modern lovers.

Now to the age of the vibrator boom! Today, vibrators come in a variety of shapes, styles, and mechanical designs.  Some vibrators have a rather basic motion of constant shaking/vibrating, while others actually have multifunctional capabilities, including rotation and thrusting.  The Rabbit Vibrator of the 1990s was a great teacher, and allowed women and couples to experiment with simultaneous clitoral and vaginal (and G-spot) orgasms.  The mainstream media, including female-friendly shows like Sex and the City, also played a part in introducing sex toys to the mainstream. It is well known (around these parts) that only 30% of all women can achieve orgasm with only intercourse.  Often times, women cannot orgasm at all during certain sexual positions which do allow direct clitoral access.  This is why the vibrator, especially the dual action vibrators, are so handy. 

Well, there you have it, hopefully we have enlightened you just that little bit when it comes to the history of a certain few of our loves. Thankfully, today you don’t have to get a prescription to get some kinky fun!

Ancient Dildo Secrets

Believe it or not, dildos actually date back well before modern civilization started.  Don’t believe the myth that sex and sexual expression didn’t exist before the 1960s.  No sir, there is a great deal of evidence that shows us that our great, great, great, great (and many more) grandfathers and grandmothers were horny old toads in their day.  The first “dildo” on record (that is an object used for sexual pleasure) actually dates back to the Upper Paleolithic period (between 20-50 thousand years ago!).  That’s right, before cavemen and women learned how to speak modern languages, they were getting busy! Some scientists believe that ancient artefacts, which look like poor quality batons, were actually masturbation aids.  “Looking at the size, shape and…explicit symbolism,” certain Archaeologists found that, “It seems disingenuous to avoid the most obvious interpretation.”  So there you have it, the first physical evidence of cave woman (or man) masturbation can be dated back to some 30,000 years ago!

Fine Dildo Art and Other Erotic Witticisms

Even in fairly recent historical times, say the Greek and Roman empires, there is clear evidence of many phallus-shaped objects being preserved through history.  There is also archaeological proof of Egyptian sex toys.  While we might be quick to identify these objects as tools related to an obscure sex worship religion, remember that for many centuries (and still today) sex and spirituality were often combined into one favourite pastime. Previous generations of humankind were not only fond of sex, but very unashamed of it, and even put their favourite dildos into legitimate works of art.

Greek vase art showcase dildos as what appear to be ancient group sessions, as well as in female solitary pleasure. If they mean what they appear as, they were on the right track we think! There are also references to dildos in Lysistrata, a B.C. comedy by Aristophanes, and of course that jolly old chap William Shakespeare, in The Winter's Tale.

It’s quite easy to read the message of those before us—enjoy yourself!  There is no reason to be shy or ashamed about dildos, vibrators, rubber dongs and other sex toys.  When you think about it, there is clearly nothing wrong with toys.  And sex is a marvellous thing when it’s done right.  So then, a “sex toy” is perhaps the most exciting invention since sliced bread! The only thing that has really changed about dildos from back then to now, is the quality of the merchandise and the hygienic properties of these adult toys. And let’s not forget the functionality off course. They are far more effective, clean and discreet now than they ever have been! We’ve had a fun time researching all of this stuff (and hope you had some fun reading), so much so that we couldn’t cram it all into 1 Blog Post, so stay tuned for Part II of our Sex Toys Anthology next week on the Randy Fox Blog.

Here's some of the information provided by Sex Toy Savers to any former customers of STS. :)

If you haven’t read them, you’ve probably heard of them! The trilogy, written by E L James provides a fresh and romantic exploration of the BDSM culture. The huge popularity of the series shows the growing acceptance of new kinds of sexuality, in particular the often “not so talked about” BDSM scene.

Fifty Shades of Grey?

In the series, Christian Grey introduces Ana Steele to a dominance and submission relationship. The novels explore the ins and outs of BDSM culture, but are about more than just whips and chains. They explore the connections and romance that new sexual exploration can create in a relationship. We all remember the excitement and interest of our first time, adding something new can rekindle that feeling.

What Have We Learnt

It’s one thing to be creative in the bedroom. It’s another to be thoughtful and aware of your partner’s desires. As you explore new sexual frontiers, it’s crucial to be aware of not only your own boundaries, but also those of your partner. Start slow and finish big; the tease and building of anticipation can multiply the height of your climax ten times over. Here are some ideas taken from the pages of this page-turner.

Dress It Up. Being sexy and feeling sexy require confidence. It also requires exposing yourself to your partner. Showing some skin in sexy lingerie is a great way to set the scene and get your blood pumping. Lace and sheer fabrics if that’s your style. Maybe you’re more of the stilettos and leather type. Whatever you choose to wear, slip into something more comfortable. Fellas, that goes for you too!

Tie It Up. Dominant and submissive role-playing is very much about power and control. Letting your partner control you via handcuffs, restraints and blindfolds is a great start. You’ll find yourself excited by the unknown. You’re relinquishing the sense of sight, but will find your other senses compensate for the inability to see. There are all kinds of bondage options, from tape to ropes, handcuffs and even furry restraints.

That’s A Paddlin’ (Cheeky Simpsons Reference). Whips, crops and paddles fill out this next section. You may not have liked being spanked as a child, but you might love it as an adult. Start slow on your buttocks, chest or thighs. You can use riding crops or sturdier paddles if you’re up for it. Eventually you’ll find all kinds of options to swing around.

Erotic Clamping. Now we are getting into juicier stuff. Nipple clamps are the next step up. You can choose tight ones for pulling or decorative clamps for looks. Regardless of how you use them, they’ll always put on a show and provide you with a unique erotic experience.

The popular Fifty Shades series has shed some well needed light on the BDSM scene. It looks set to catch its second wind in middle of 2014, with the release of the film. Can’t Wait!

Rachel is an advice columnist and freelance writer who answers questions regarding dating, relationships, sex and everything in between. She runs RealityChick.com.au and has guest written for The Daily Telegraph, TheHoopla, Urban Dater and The Good Men Project amongst others.

Feel free to hop on over to RealityChick.com.au to see the full details of the competition which runs until the 12th of September 2013. In a nutshell, we are asking, if you won a Randy Rabbit, what name would you give it and why? We are loving some of the quirky and funny names readers are providing thus far, we just might just consider a name change. Enjoy! :)

It’s easy to understand why there is a problem here.  Much of what we learn about sex, from TV and movies, from pornography, from class room talk or dirty jokes, is a warped view of what sex is supposed to be. It’s no wonder that so many men shorten the foreplay session and straight go for the breasts or the down stairs region, because this is precisely what our society has taught men to do.  The Westernized view of sex often teaches that sex is about conquest.  This couldn’t be far from the truth.

Here a five simple, yet effective foreplay tips that are often forgotten and should help keep things in perspective:

1)  Compliment Each Other. First and foremost, communication is always a key factor in any relationship, with compliments helping to build self esteem, and therefore confidence in the bedroom.

2)  Add Some Props. Adding a sensual backdrop, including candles, bed petals, or perhaps stepping it up a notch with edible treats gets you ready in anticipation for what’s to come. It also shows that you have taken the effort, which is always a big turn on.

3) Take Your Time In Undressing Each Other. Remember, it’s not a race! The anticipation will heighten the mood and your senses. Your body will respond accordingly by releasing those feel good hormones.

4) Spend Some Time Caressing. Gently caress each other with soft touch, being sure to take deep breaths in between. Switch between the insides and the outsides of your fingers in a slow, swirling motion.

5) Don’t Spend Too Much Time On One Area. Gently kiss all over, particularly focussing on erogenous zones that may have been forgotten. The neck, around the navel and the wrist have proven to be quite underrated. Try them out.

What is the wrong type of sex?  Fast, thoughtless, goal-oriented sex.  This is the worst way to go about it, because if you don’t really enjoy what you’re doing you will inevitably disappoint your partner and fall short of your own expectations. In reality, the best sex is when you savour the moment.

Using a little extra lubricant will make sure you always have a smile on your face when you get to having some fun! But, not all lubricants are the same, and different types of sex toys may require different types of lubricants. Let's take a quick look at the most common lubes out there today.

Water-Based Lubricants

If you're using a silicone-based sex toy, you'll need a water-based lubricant to go with it. Silicone-based lubes with silicone-based vibrators just won't work, and cause the toy's surface to degrade. Water-based lubricants are of course, easy to clean up, all you need to do is rinse it off when you're done. Water-based lubricants are the most versatile, so if ever in doubt about what kind of lubricant to use with your toy, you should always look at water-based lubes as a first option.

Silicone-Based Lubricants

A silicone-based lubricant can be very stimulating, and are perfect for using waterproof toys in the bath or pool. A silicone lubricant lasts longer than the water-based variety, which is another key advantage if you're planning a long session. Clean-up may take a little longer when you're done, but just ordinary soap and water will do the trick. As mentioned, using silicone lubricants with silicone toys is generally not a good idea though.

Arousal Lubricants

Some lubricants offer a "warming" sensation, which can be very pleasurable and exciting. They are perfectly safe, and the lubricant itself actually does not produce heat - it just feels like it. These types of lubes can definitely add a bit of spice to your adventure.

Flavoured Lubricants

If you want to use a lubricant, but don't want to hold back in any way, then a flavoured lubricant may be in order. You can be as oral as you want to be, even after lubricating, and that can add an extra dimension of fun and excitement. Flavoured Lubricants are usually water-based.

Oil & Petroleum Based Lubricants

Oil-based lubricants should be used with caution. Never use them with latex condoms, as they can destroy the latex. Used more prominently in the past and now being phased out, oil-based lubricants can also be irritating to the vagina, so they are therefore used mainly for anal sex. Petroleum-based lubricants are much similar and are often much thicker than other varieties. Similar care is recommended when using Petroleum-based lubes.

All in all, a good lubricant can enhance an already great experience. Experiment a little, and start with a small amount and then vary depending on your preferences and what feels best. At the end of the day, you know what feels best for you!

 Battery Powered Vibes

Let’s start with battery-powered vibrators, usually the most common design in the sex toy industry.  This is the category of toy with the slickest of visuals, since battery operation allows great flexibility in design.  You simply buy new batteries and wear your sex toy out, come what may.

The pros of battery powered sex toys include portability, more interesting shapes and sizes in toy design, and cost-efficiency.  However, practically any woman who uses traditional battery-powered sex toys admits that they lack the power of their competitors.  Therefore, if you need major stimulation to orgasm, you may be whacking up the wrong tree with battery power.

Plug-In Vibes

These toys are possibly the most inconvenient, since they have to plug in directly to a wall outlet.  However, these toys are undoubtedly the most powerful selection.  These sex toys give you the highest concentration of vibration intensity and thus the most intense orgasms if you need raw strength at your disposal.  These products are often the most durable and long lasting of toys; however, they are inconvenient to use because of the cord, and are never waterproof. 

Popular models of plug in sex toys include the universally loved Medisil Magic Touch Massager (Also known as Australia’s Hitachi Magic Wand).

Rechargeable Vibrators

Is there any difference in using rechargeable vibrators?  These vibrators are still battery powered, but they are powered by special electrochemical cells, which are electrically reversible.  These battery types can vary in power and may use various components for powering up, such as lithium ion and or nickel cadmium.

This technology is a hybrid between plugged in and battery powered; it lets you use the toy with or without a plug.  As a rule, these toys generally maintain the strength of a “new battery” toy 24-7.  They are durable and long lasting and they do eliminate the need to buy batteries on a regular basis.  Unfortunately, they are not 100% guaranteed to work and could give out at the worst moment possible, as battery-toys have been known to do.  Products that use rechargeable batteries tend to be on the cutting-edge of technology, and include toys like the LELO and We-Vibe Ranges.

Final Words

The choice is yours.  Don’t always assume power wins the contest.  Sometimes power takes second place to convenience, toy design and rhythms.  The truth is that all of these vibrators have advantages and they’re all worth trying once, or twice or however many times you please!

Another benefit to blindfolds is that they significantly up the anticipation for sex. Since the blindfolded individual does not know when the next move is coming, this could make the whole experience so much more arousing. The excitement that comes with surprise can get a person warmed-up for sex much quicker than traditional foreplay. For individuals who are into bondage, roleplay, domination, and the like, being blindfolded or blindfolding another person definitely plays into those sexual fantasies and fetishes.

What do I do once the blindfold is on my partner?

To answer this question, you need to ask yourself what you and your partner's sexual preferences and fantasies are. For most couples, blindfolds work best when used on the submissive one in the pair so the other person can play a dominant role.

1) Sensual Massage

Start off by telling your blindfolded partner to lay down for a relaxing massage. Guide your partner to the massage table, and slowly undress him or her. First, use your bare hands with limited, isolated contact to create arousal by touching parts of the body like the back of the neck, side of the stomach, calves, and more. Next, use scented oils and creams with long firm strokes on major body parts to build arousal and make the experience more luxurious. Then let yourself go, freely stroking, grabbing, and pinching every inch until your partner is soaked in his or her own sweat. Use only your hands during this phase.

2) Character Building

If you prefer playing the dominant role and taking charge of the situation, the blindfold can help you get into character during the massage since your partner cannot see you. When you know that you are not being watched, you will be much more comfortable getting rough and rowdy with your significant other.

3) Get Creative & Unpredictable

Within reason of course! To take the hotness up a notch, take your partner to the bedroom, and cuff your partner to the bed with the blindfold on. Then tease your partner with gentle caressing, kissing, licking, or sucking combined with long after-pauses to take his or her level of arousal to the limit. Sit back and enjoy watching your partner moan and squirm for more as you punish them with periods of inactivity. If you really want to be cruel, slide an ice cube across your partner's moist skin when it's least expected.

4) Call The Shots

Now it's time for you to lay back and get served. This is where you command your partner to perform on you using the remaining senses. Forcefully demand that your partner put his or her hands on your body, and guide your partner with your voice to those forbidden areas so you can simultaneously indulge in the pleasure of domination and sexual release.

 Ginger

Ginger increases blood circulation in the genital area, which is precisely what Viagra and similar supplements do for you.  Furthermore, many believe ginger has an arousing aroma.

 Chocolate

A lot of us have a love for chocolate, I mean, it's just so damn tasty…but do you know why?  Chocolate contains “love chemicals” anandamide, phenylethylamine and tryptophan.  Simply put, they help to release dopamine in your brain.  This is the same chemical that helps bring along orgasm.

 Chilli

Chilli pods contain capsaicin, a chemical that has been known to release endorphins, which some say contribute much to sexual appetite and pleasure. They also help to increase blood flow and circulation, which also helps.

 Walnuts

This nut helps keep your blood flow fast and flowing, and excellent vascular health helps to intensify orgasms and increase sex drive. They have also been known to be a link that help some men maintain their erections.

 Avocados

This fruit is high in B6, which helps to regulate the thyroid gland and the release of those good hormones. Avocados are also high in potassium and folic acid, which can boost libido and energy.

 Bananas

Bananas are not only shaped suggestively but also help men to produce testosterone and to keep up their stamina. This has been linked to the presence of the enzyme ‘bromelain’ which is available in Bananas.

 Porridge

No wonder granny was so fertile…she was a demon in the sack, and that may be all thanks to porridge.  This healthy food improves prostate health, contributing to healthy semen, and also works as a general libido enhancer.

 Nutmeg

Nutmeg has been used in many cultures around the world as a popular booster of "sex drive", but it has also shown some promise of having an aphrodisiacal effect on lab mice. Hopefully it’s the same for us!

 Honey

Honey contains the chemical boron, which helps to produce oestrogen in women, contributing to overall sexual health. Honey can also be an energy booster and help to build up your immune system.

 Figs

Figs have always been associated with sex, since ancient times, and even in numerous biblical references.  Legend has it that sex goddess Cleopatra ate many figs, and these helped her to keep an insatiable appetite.  To this day, figs are still associated with fertility.

Other natural aphrodisiacs to sample include garlic, fennel, oysters, liquorice and celery.  Indeed, the healthier you and your partner are, the more you get out of sex.  There is no need to drink down strange supplemental drinks, rub anything on your twanger, or go see the doctor for an awkward conversation.  Try to improve your dieting first and make sure to add some of these extras (very discreet ones, at that!) to your grocery bag!

A lot of hard work has gone into designing, making and receiving the Randy Rabbit on our shores, so we'd like to extend a warm thanks to all the nice people at Cosmopolitan, and also our design team at RF headquarters. Thanks guys!

Twister

Good old Twister! To add sexual thrill to this game, play it naked! Add fun to your efforts of keeping yourself balanced on the coloured circles by kissing or licking your partner at the same time. By doing this, you will arouse your partner even before you finish the game and it will be a matter of who’s the quickest to quit!

Sex Yahtzee

This is a fun game that only requires a piece of paper and a pair of dice. Get creative and match a sexual move to the number that appears on the dice after rolling it. Allow the mood to control your desires, experiment a little and see where the night takes you!

Truth or Dare

Now, just about everyone played this as a youngster, so we’ll skip past the mechanics of this game. However, you need to modify this a bit when you play it in the bedroom. This is a great game to play if you want to get to know more about your partner's sexual preferences. This can help you boost your performance in the bedroom, but also helps you learn about each other, making love making even more satisfying for the both of you. Starting to feel nostalgic yet? We sure are!

7 Minutes in Heaven

Adjust the rules of this game by going into a dark closet and telling your partner to join you. Once inside, tease each other by taking turns kissing different body parts...except for the lips. Keep doing this until one of you folds under the pressure, and goes for the lips. We have a feeling it might be a short time before someone cracks under the pressure, but hey, it’s a super fun way of testing yourselves on how long you can hold out! It's all about discipline people!

Try An Adult Board Game

If you’ve experimented with a number of ways to have fun in the bedroom thinking outside the box, feel free to try an Adult Board Game or similar. After all, that’s what they were made for! Games like Nookii and Monogamy have proven to be quite a hit for those looking at trying something new with their significant other. Above all, with whatever choice you might make, don’t forget to have fun and use your imagination! Enjoy folks!

To prevent unsought buzzing from battery operated devices, simply remember to remove the batteries from your toy before closing your bag. It may seem like it goes without saying, but you would be surprised about some of the stories we’ve heard! Just make sure to put the batteries in your bag so you won't be stuck in a compromising position later. Another tip to keep in mind the next time you're out shopping for a new toy is that some massagers come with a control lock feature to prevent them from going off when not in use. Also, don't forget to charge your rechargeable products beforehand so they are ready to go when you settle in your new destination.

Having your bag searched by security in front of complete strangers is annoying enough, as is. The last thing you need is to have another person's hands all over your intimate items. Fortunately, there is an easy fix for this dilemma. While you're packing your shampoo and body wash in clear sandwich or freezer bags, remember to grab a few extras for your toys. You may also be interested in investing in a storage box for your fave sex toys. Yes, one’s specifically made for those purposes do exist! Your personal items can remain hygienic and be grouped in one place so the officer can easily see what you're carrying and move on. This might help get you through security checks a little faster and with much less embarrassment if you do get stopped.

Us Randy Fox folk would like to extend a warm congratulations to one of our providers of quality products, and thought we would take this chance to praise LELO on their success, and provide a little bit of background information (and neat facts) on how an excellent idea in 2003 has grown to become one of the largest providers of quality pleasure products for both women and men alike.

What was the inspiration for the concept behind LELO...finding a gift for the 40th birthday of a woman who "had it all". And so it began, with the first sketches and designs being drawn out and assembled in the humble setting of Sedic’s living room. These “Pleasure Objects” were to dawn a new era of adult products that steered clear of traditional design and allowed for grace to meet pleasure.

It was in 2005 at a Las Vegas based trade show when "the Swedes and their new sex toys" really started to gather interest and gain momentum. Fast forwarding to some 10 years later, LELO's quality has seen them grow to the global brand they are today, with over 6 million (that's right, million!) LELO branded products sold as of 2013. Their unique portfolio now extends through to personal massagers, bedroom accessories, massage oils, massage candles and a premium line of silk intimate apparel. 

At Randy Fox, we wanted to take this chance to thank LELO and Sugar & Sas (our LELO Partner) for their continued support of us and their commitment to quality. This commitment is what allows us to keep our community satisfied and we are proud to help distribute such products to our ever growing RF family. Keep up the great stuff guys! :)

                                   A Warming Treat

Warming lotions and treats can be a great way to overcome those “give me back the covers” blues. Engineered to heat up with friction (or even a soft puff of breath), these lotions can help both you and your partner get into that hot groove that the winter so often prevents. But while lotions made specifically for the bedroom may be the quickest route to a hot, steamy night, you can get creative in your kitchen for an approximation. Hold a swallow of hot chocolate in your mouth for a moment, gulp it back, and kiss his/her body with your warm tongue. Want a tingle? Try hot peppermint tea, instead. Just be careful; you don’t want to spill your drink on the sheets...or anywhere else!

 A Crackling Good Time

Ask anyone about the most romantic settings they can imagine, and you’re almost certainly going to hear “sitting by a fire” among their answers. A warm fire can not only keep you warm during the winter, it can lead to a night of passion simply impossible to reproduce in the summer. Take advantage of the howling winds to set a mood that will connect you and your partner on a deep level. Don’t have a fireplace? Make do with a radiator or a space heater and some blankets on the floor. It may not feel quite the same to begin with, but romance is what you make of it. Many women, particularly, will find a man’s attempts at setting a mood with limited tools to be an even stronger aphrodisiac than if he got everything perfect. 

A Wet Night

When nothing else can warm you, a hot shower can feel like mists sent straight from heaven. Why keep that sensation to yourself? After a few minutes under the warm water, you’ll forget that the thermometer outside is dropping like a stone. Invite your partner to share the feeling with you. Take the time to carefully wash each other and you’ll be amazed at how quickly the atmosphere can change. Plus, one of the best things about lovemaking in the shower is that you don’t have to clean up afterwards! 

A Buffet in the Bedroom

If you’ve never used food in your lovemaking, you might consider giving it a try this winter.

 While most people conjure the famous scene from 9 1/2 Weeks when they think about food in the bedroom, you don’t have to eat strawberries off each other’s bodies to turn up the heat. One interesting idea is to set up a small taste test. Blindfold your partner and gently feed them a bite of several winter treats. Apple crumble, sweet potato pie, and fruit lend themselves well to a sensual evening. Have him/her guess what they just ate. Wrong answers might mean a punishment, if you know what we mean.

Creative Thinking

 You can use all of these ideas or none of them when it comes to spicing up your love life in the winter. It's entirely up to you of course, but as long as both you and your partner are willing to try, that’s really all that matters. Get creative and be open with each other. Share your fantasies and don’t be afraid to experiment. Before you know it, winter will be gone and the temperatures will start creeping up once again. You may just find yourself impatiently waiting for June to come around next year. Enjoy!

  How do I use my Fleshlight?

Using your Fleshlight is quite simple, and you have a variety of techniques for use at your fingertips. It is a good idea to experiment with different methods to find one that is most satisfying for you. Some men prefer to add lubricant and begin using the toy, while others prefer some preparation to create a more realistic experience. It is recommended that you submerge the removable sleeve in warm water before applying some lubricant. While having a warm Fleshlight feels great, you never want to microwave or boil it. You can also experiment with the amount of suction by loosening or tightening the cap on the outside canister. Some men create their own unique techniques to match their masturbation styles. It is possible to use the Fleshlight in a missionary position, by using something, like a shoe or a small box, to hold it in place.

What is the best way to clean my Fleshlight?

Cleaning your Fleshlight is easy and ensures that it lasts. First, remove the sleeve and rinse it in warm water. If the water is too hot, you risk damaging the toy. In addition, you should never use soap. If you feel that your toy is not getting clean, use a small amount of isopropyl alcohol on a soft rag. Any time you wash your Fleshlight, you might feel that it is not as soft as it used to be. Simply sprinkle a very small amount of corn starch inside the sleeve and shake it around. You may also choose to use Fleshlight Renewing Powder, which is an official product from Fleshlight themselves. Apart from these two, do not use any other types of powders, as they may be detrimental to the toy.

What is the best way to dry my Fleshlight?

First, shake any excess water out of the sleeve. This will speed up the drying process. You can run a soft cloth through the toy, in one side and out the other. Next, place your toy in a well-ventilated area. You do not want the water to remain stagnant inside the toy. The key to drying your Fleshlight efficiently is to leave the cap unscrewed so air can flow through.

Can I use my Fleshlight in the water?

Yes, your Fleshlight is absolutely waterproof. That means you can use it in the shower or the bath tub, as long as your sleeve does not get soapy. Soap can cause damage to the removable sleeve. You should avoid using your toy in the hot tub, as boiling water can also damage your toy.

How long will my Fleshlight last?

The Fleshlight feels so soft and supple that many men foresee their toys will not last very long. This is not the case. In spite of the fact that your Fleshlight provides a soft and stimulating experience, the sleeve is strong and durable. The canister holding the sleeve is also incredibly sturdy, keeping the pliable sleeve intact. If you care for your Fleshlight by cleaning, drying and storing it properly after each use, it is sure to last many years.

Should I use a condom with my Fleshlight?

If you are the sole user of the Fleshlight, there is no reason you must use a condom with the toy unless it feels better for you. Some men find that using a condom with the toy helps to build stamina and to make intercourse feel more comfortable. It is not a good idea to share sex toys but if you do, always use a condom to prevent the spread of bacterial infections.

Should I use lubricant with my Fleshlight?

It is a great idea to use lubricant with your Fleshlight, but you should stick to water-based varieties. Oil-based lubricant will eat away at the sleeve’s material, significantly decreasing its lifespan.

What should I do if my Fleshlight sleeve has black spots?

After you have cleaned your Fleshlight, you might discover small black spots. This is typical for toys that have not been dried properly. If you find these spots, apply some isopropyl alcohol to clean them. Proper drying is essential to maintaining the life of your toy.

What should I do if my Fleshlight sleeve is sticky after I wash it?

It is common for the clear Fleshlight range of sleeves to become stickier than the other options. Don’t worry, there is nothing wrong with your Fleshlight. You can store it after you dry the sleeve, but you should rinse it in warm water and dry it again before its next use. If you find that your sleeve just isn’t soft enough, use a bit of corn starch or Fleshlight Renewing Powder to smooth it out.

Chemises

The chemise is a classical choice of nightwear for women who want to feel sexy before bed. It is comparable to both a shirt and dress, though it is much shorter than something you might leave the house in. Chemises hang down to the waist loosely, though a bit tighter than most baby dolls. They are typically decorated with frills and lace and often called shifts or smocks.

Baby Dolls

A baby doll is a short nightgown, also known as a negligee. These pieces of lingerie are typically short and may come with panties to be worn underneath. Length ranges from hips to the top of the knee. They are often loose fighting, much more so than a chemise, with thin straps. It is common for some baby doll nighties to come with cups to support the bust, and they are often decorated with ruffles, ribbons and lace. While the top might be form-fitting, the skirt usually flows.

Camisoles

A camisole is considered a very light tank top, usually with spaghetti straps. It is short, occasionally exposing the midriff and often made of cotton, satin or nylon. Some camisoles are sold with matching panties. Camisoles are versatile, as they can be worn as undershirts or as pyjamas. Some camis even have built-in bras.

Teddies

A teddy is a piece of lingerie that looks like a bathing suit. It is form-fitting with small straps. It is comparable to a body suit, usually made of sheer material. Some women wear teddies underneath their clothing to avoid a panty line. Some teddies have cut outs along the chest or back for a sexy look.

Bustiers

A bustier is typically a very tight top that fastens in the back and emphasizes the bust. It usually pushes the breasts up and may reveal part of the midriff. Some women wear a bustier instead of a bra when they wear a dress with a lower back. Some bustiers reach down to the waist and include garter belts to help hold up stockings.

Corsets

While corsets are often associated with historical garments, they still have quite a following. Corsets are bodices that fit very tightly around the torso, much tighter than a bustier. They usually have several laces or hooks going down the back and require extensive effort to wear. They shape the torso into an hourglass shape, often with long lasting results.

Pasties & Tassles

Pasties are decorated patches that women can wear over their nipples with the help of adhesive tape. Tassles, which include dangling fringe, may be worn on pasties. While they are often seen in burlesque shows, these accessories are also common for women who would like to avoid a wardrobe malfunction in sheer clothing.

Boy Shorts

Boy shorts are panties that resemble boxers that men wear. In contrast to these boxers, however, they are tight and may include fake buttons. The top is also low cut, though the underwear covers most of the bottom. They usually have a bit of lace or a cute pattern to distinguish them from their masculine counterparts. Many women prefer this style because it does not create a panty line and it is a comfortable alternative to thongs.

Hosiery & Garters

Hosiery encompasses a wide range of leg wear, including knee high socks, panty hose, leggings, tights and thigh highs. These pieces of clothing fit tightly and usually provide sheer covering for cold weather. Garters typically contain elastic and wrap around the leg to keep socks and stockings held up. Some women choose to wear garter belts, which are worn around the waist and use straps to hold up stockings.

G-Strings

A G-string and a thong are very similar, with a narrow strip of cloth covering the bottom. While a G-string includes a very small strip, the thong offers a bit more coverage. In addition to working as panties, there are also G-string bikinis.

Good Vibrations

Vibrators are a very common adult toy, and many vibrators are made of medical grade silicone, a water proof material that can actually be safely inserted into the body cavity and used with lubricants. Vibrating panties are different in the fact that they don't employ the insertion of anything. The idea is that they can be worn for instant and intense stimulation of erogenous zones on the outside of the body.

Vibrating underwear typically feature a small pocket where a bullet vibrator can be inserted. In some models, this vibrator must be activated via the device itself, but other more sophisticated versions can be controlled by a remote, enabling completely hands free pleasure that's discreet in the meantime. This makes remote vibrating panties perfect for naughty couple play too, but we’ll get to that a bit later. While it's common to think of vibrating undies as only a girl thing relegated to panties and bras, there are also briefs available for men.

The Thrill of Voyeur

One of the most enticing aspects of vibrating underwear involves the fact that they can be worn just about anywhere, and no one will know the wiser. Particularly high end garments like the pieces by Fetish Fantasy are very comfortable against the skin. You can easily wear them as your "regular" undergarments, and why wouldn't you want to? When you can control with a remote, you can experience ecstasy in public without causing any undue attention, as long as your response isn't too noticeable of course.

If you have a not-so-fun desk job, you may find yourself looking for ways to perk up a slow morning. While coffee is a great booster out of the gate, things can get rather dreary as the day skirts on at a snail’s pace. To keep your spirits in the clouds, a pair of vibrating underwear can give you the precise jolt you need. If you work in a cubicle, you're especially free to engage in a round of eroticism since you'll be in your own little sanctuary. Just a suggestion of course. Wink Wink.

Frisky Foreplay

While vibrating undies are great to use alone, they can be a wonderful addition to your intimate routine with a partner. To get in the mood for action, slip on a pair of your favourite panties and let them grind away at your resolve before your lover takes things to the max. Some pairs of vibrating underwear are actually crotch-less, as they were meant to be worn during the heat of the moment. The idea is for the vibrations to massage the clitoris during vaginal penetration, or even the perineum or scrotal area for a guy.

The result is a culmination of senses that all work in tandem to give you the best feeling possible. In effect, a pair of vibrating underwear can be the perfect complement to a night of ecstasy. If you're looking for a fun and erotic gift for your lover, investing in a nice pair is a great way to spice things up in the bedroom. They also make excellent gifts for brides and grooms to be, as well as for Valentine's treats that will last as long as you do.

Virtual Undergarments

What does the future hold? Most recently, a novel concept of vibrating underwear has been unveiled to the public. Durex has patented Fundawear, special underwear that house a network of sensors and fibres that create a vibrating function without any added vibe. The most technologically advanced aspect of these underwear comes in the way you activate them. They're controlled by a smart phone app that actually presents you with a virtual image of either partner's most sensitive areas.

With the swipe of a finger, one lover can activate the vibrations in the underwear, resulting in an undulation of passionate energy that can occur over a long distance. These underwear actually open the door to how couples can interact with each other when being together physically is impossible. Even if you're separated by land and sea, you'll be able to experience intimacy with your lover.

Whether you're tempted to make a new purchase for your toy collection, or this is a first time indulgence, consider investing in a pair of vibrating panties for a wholly new experience. Their versatility and practicality are what make them so inviting, and they're also easy to store from peering eyes.

Is There Anything Horrible About Anal Play?

The short answer is NO! The long answer involves an explanation.

Both men and women have radically different reproductive complexes, but strangely similar auxiliary sex organs. Just about everyone loves skin contact, rubbing, nuzzling and behaviours associated with lovely sex. This also includes that often overlooked area opposite of the traditional side of sex. Every person has an anus which functions in similar fashion and contains an entirely new realm of possibilities.

Centuries of myth have taught people falsely that the anus is a dirty region of the body. Sex involving the anus must be the desire of deviants and those who are misled in some way. The truth is, the anus is a region with an extremely dense concentration of nerves that aid in sexual stimulation, and all that is required for anal play is a little knowledge and bravado.

What Is The First Step To Enjoying Anal Play?

If you are contemplating exploration of sexual activity that involves the anus, you already know yourself better than anyone else. The first step afterward is finding a partner that is willing to help explore this activity at your preferred pace.

For some people, anal play is natural. For others, it is a long journey of trust and compassion which requires patience and attention paid to the feelings and desires of a partner. Anal sex is neither straight, gay, male, nor female. It is an activity that can lead to a vastly expounded understanding of the carnal likes and dislikes of the individual.

What About The Butt?

For men, the anal region is a secluded and prized area of privacy. To allow penetration through the anal sphincter is to expose oneself without reserve. For a woman, many consider the anus as a "secondary vagina" that is only accessible through ultimate trust, comfort and the acquired need to please a partner with all the “tools” available.

For both sexes, anal play is the difference between casual penetrative sex and intercourse which reaches into the core of each partner’s soul. It’s the last frontier. The anus is the access point at which all sexual boundaries are conquered and complete liberation is achieved. Anal sex has little to do with orientation, morale, experience and personality. It has everything to do with enjoying sex free from a sense of hesitation, reserve, embarrassment, or judgment.

OK, But How Should A First Timer Begin?

The penis and vagina are self-lubricating. This is for good reason. These organs are responsible for the majority of human sexual contact and the transport of precious reproductive materials. The anus does not produce a natural lubrication. Though anal sex is pleasurable, is requires a little help. Any activity, alone or with a partner should include a high quality lubricant. Unhindered entry is key to anal fun.

The possibilities of solo anal play are endless and subject to your personal thresholds when it comes to how you progress. When a partner is involved, an evolution must occur.

How Is Partnered Anal Sex Made Enjoyable?

The first step is trust! If partners agree to engage in anal activity, it breaks down a psychological barrier that would otherwise make this type of intercourse intolerable.

The foreplay is up to the partners involved, but the first step should be careful touch and proper preparation. Gentle massage and contact should be initiated by both partners. Application of lubricants, verbal communication and physical teasing will relax the person whose anus will be penetrated.

Conditioning for full penetration is paramount. Use a single finger to relax the anus and rush blood to the tissue surface. A few minutes of massage will produce a small “gape” which signals a readiness for a larger object. Time spent with a dildo, or vibrator is next. As the anus accepts an object with greater circumference, physiological changes will occur like flush skin, heavy breathing and leg and torso relaxation.

After preparation, an anus which is ready to accept a phallic object will look plump and active in a respirative sense. This means, it will pump and engorge with the pace of the person’s breathing and motion. Entry to the anal cavity is now ready to begin.

Taking It Anally.

Once anal sex has begun, the number one way to continue is to relax.

Women should always be aware of the lubrication quotient. Sometimes an excited male cannot feel your need. This is when it is time to take control of the pace. If you are properly lubricated, all adjustments can be made.

Men should relax their entire body and direct the tip of the penis or toy toward the prostate. This can be accomplished with a combination of torso rolling and a gentle “pushing out,” akin to the progress of a bowel movement.

First time anal experiences should be taken slowly and with a generous layer of fine lubricant and protective devices. There is no better way to learn how to best enjoy anal sex, than to slowly introduce the action into your regimen with the help of a partner that you trust.

What Should Happen After The First Time?

If anal sex is enjoyable for you, continue to experiment with the details of your unique sexual make-up with an array of sex toys. Try different sized vibrators, dildos, Prostate massagers and anal stimulators to zero-in on what types of anal activity brings you the most satisfaction.

As you learn how your unique body configuration translates anal stimulation you will then be able to take on more advanced methods and toys. Never push yourself beyond what’s comfortable and safe. Always make yourself anally available to partners you trust.

It takes time and desire, but becoming an anal sex expert is worth it! You have discovered that your entire body is capable of producing pleasure. Now, have the discipline and drive to follow that desire in a safe and appealing way. Enjoy!

You Love The Pleasure Of Sex, But Don’t Quite Understand Your Own Rhythm

Dildos are used by curious first timers and veterans alike, so never think of yourself as alone in the pursuit of pleasure-on-command.

Deciding which dildo is your perfect match first requires an intimate awareness of your own physiology and fantasy requirements. It’s a fact, most women cannot achieve orgasm through penetration and most men never consider dildo play. This is unfortunate because many quality dildo models are capable of pleasuring a woman inside and out, and can make any man almost comatose with internal pleasure. If you do not know yourself however, how will you choose the right toy?

In private, determine what areas of your body are most sensitive to physical contact and to what degree that area responds. All people are wired differently and have unique combinations of touch and imagery which result in climax.

It May Seem There Are Too Many Dildo Choices To Determine Which Model Is The Best

Again, remember that it’s about you not the dildo. Someone in-tune with what their body’s needs can use almost any dildo in a way which produces pleasure.

There are hundreds of dildo models and variations on the market for every type of individual. You could spend eternity trying to find a dildo that “magically” makes you feel great, but the chances are unlikely if you do not own your own sexual sensitivity and awareness.

Experiment with low cost traditional models of dildos in order to find out what truly turns you on. Touch sensitivity can be noted through time spent with sex toys and the desire to discover “hot spots.” Fantasy satisfaction is something completely different. Once you identify your own personal “wiring,” you can search for dildos with specific qualities that match your biologic and psychological parameters.

The expectancy of certain dildo qualities providing sexual gratification is often the crux of achieving orgasmic conclusivity and deeply personal enjoyment.

What If I Choose The Wrong Dildo?

The simple answer is, you’ll just have to try another. Ask yourself, “What is a dildo’s function?” Does colour matter? What about cost? These are details which pale in comparison with really important questions like “where is my most sensitive spot?” Or, “how much pressure should I apply to keep myself excited until orgasm happens?”

In short, women should look for the perfect dildo first, by knowing their own fantasies and biological rhythms. Then, narrow the choices to a list of dildos with desired options and budgetary details. Men (yes, men), should shop for a dildo based on their capacity for penetration, desire to fulfil fantasies and personal sensitivity.

No dildo is perfectly made and suited for one individual or personality type. The more a person understands what turns them on and how their bodies and minds work, increases the chance they will develop the skill and knowledge to shop for and use a dildo that is wonderfully fitted to their special physiology.

Remember, dildos are tools and sexual products used to achieve an orgasmic end. The dildo has no special power above and beyond the skill and knowledge of the individual.

Also, never forget that as a free shopper, you have the option to enjoy a wide spectrum of dildo variations. Never feel confined by the pressure to choose the perfect dildo right out of the gate. It is extremely common for people to have a respectable collection of dildos which represents their personal path to true, natural and pure, dildo-aided sexual satisfaction!

When you enter the wide, wonderful world of strap-on dildos and harnesses, you may be bewildered by the wide variety of harness designs, dildos and attachment systems. You may be a bit hesitant to “take the plunge” without a solid understanding of what you’re looking for, and you may be wondering about the best method of introducing your new toy to your partner in the bedroom. The following guide should be a great starting point regarding the wonderful world of pegging (a man being anally penetrated by a woman) and strap-on play.

Harness Styles

There are several types of strap-on harnesses on the market. The purpose of the harness is to provide a stable attachment point for the various dildos that are used with the strap-on device. Harness construction usually follows one of two designs; the “jock” type and the “thong” type. The jock-type harness is worn as a man would wear a jockstrap and allows access to the woman’s anus and vagina even when the harness is in place. In general, harnesses designed to be worn like a jock adjust to varying body size more easily than do thong-type harnesses, and the woman has more positive control of the dong attachment.

The thong-style harness is worn just as a conventional thong is worn, with the disadvantage that the anus and vagina are covered by the thong strap during sex play. On the plus side, the base of the dildo presses directly against the skin when worn in a thong-type harness. This arrangement affords the woman a great deal of control and the benefit of added clitoral stimulation.

Harnesses can be constructed of leather, nylon, rubber or plastic. Leather is the quintessential material of the dominatrix: There’s nothing hotter than seeing your woman, clad in supple leather, preparing to mount you and sporting a powerful dong. However, leather does demand some attention in order to maintain its softness and integrity; a harness made of nylon, rubber or plastic may be the most sensible choice for everyday use.

Connecting the Dong

The method of connecting your harness to the seductive dong of your choice is very important. There are several ways your harness can “mate” with the dildo of your choice. The Vac-U-Lock system, the Power-Lock system and the O-ring are the most common methods of connecting dildo to harness. An entirely different “strapless” system is also available for your pegging pleasure.

The Vac-U-Lock system consists of a harness and a patented connector plug. The unique plug mates with special hollow dongs and dildos that are also "Vac-U-Lock" compatible to create a strong, rotation resistant connection between dong and harness. This system makes your dong feel like it’s a part of you and gives you a great degree of control over your thrusting. The Power-Lock system is essentially a variation of the Vac-U-Lock system, with a plug connector that securely locks down any of a number of proprietary dongs.

Perhaps the most common method of attaching the dong to the harness is the simple O-ring system. An O-ring in general is a circular hole in which to fit dildos and dongs. Some harnesses come with an O-ring permanently affixed to the pad of the harness itself, and other models come with interchangeable O-rings to allow the wearer to choose from a variety of dong sizes. If the harness you are looking at is of the O-ring type, be sure that it has interchangeable O-rings.

Many Strap-On Dongs come made as "hollow", allowing for either partner to get the full effects. The great part about the hollow Strap-On system is that males can place their manhood into the actual dong and use the product to enhance their thrusts. 

Wrapping up our discussion of connectors is the “strapless” dong. The most sexually adventurous and erotic of the “strap-ons,” this piece is constructed to be held in place by the strong vaginal muscles of the woman herself. The Tantus Feeldoe range is an example of such a strapless device. The woman inserts one end of the device deeply into her vagina and penetrates her partner while gripping the dildo firmly within.

Using Your Strap-On

Whenever you begin to experiment with strap-on penetration, slow and steady wins the race. Once you’ve securely strapped into your harness and attached the piece of your choice, be sure that your partner is relaxed and that his or her anus/vagina is well lubricated. If both partners are female, remember that dildos do tend to be somewhat larger than life; make sure to use plenty of water-based lube for both vaginal and anal penetration.

When you’re ready to penetrate, have your partner take a deep breath, relax and bear down. Once you’re all the way inside, begin slow thrusts as the receiver becomes accustomed to the full feeling of strap-on play.

When you’re done with your fun, be sure to wash your strap-on dildo carefully before the next use.

Many erotic options exist for the strap-on lover. Different shapes and sizes of dildo provide different sensations; select a variety and have fun finding out which ones you and your partner fancy most.

BDSM can either be explored in minimal ways, or it can become a committed lifestyle. The formal lifestyle recognition has only been around for a few decades, but the practices are as old as sex itself. Modern sexually liberated consumers and sex toy manufacturers have devised items which enhance Bondage experimentation in varying degrees.

How Do People Start Exploring Bondage?

If there is a BDSM fantasy, there are nearly limitless bondage, fetish toys and devices which help people realise those specific sexual urges. 

The first rule of bondage play is mutual consent. Solo play is a bondage niche, but the majority of acts are performed by couples and groups. Since bondage may involve degrees of anxiety, discomfort and aggression, ground rules for play must be established. Understanding each participant’s desires and boundaries is the key to achieving pleasure and effectively using bondage gear as it is designed.

What Are Bondage Roles?

When consenting partners explore their fantasies they will discover if they are more inclined to enjoy making others experience sensations, or have acts performed on them. Sadists, or “tops” prefer to dominate and have control over sexual aides. Masochists, or “bottoms” enjoy being at the mercy of someone else. An increasing number of people are discovering that taking part in both roles brings heightened levels of bondage appreciation.

Roles also determine the choice in bondage gear. Usually one person endures, and the other inflicts. Successful play is highly dependent upon intimate awareness of preferences.

Are Certain Items Required For Bondage?

No, but variety is the “spice of BDSM life!” Dressing up in leather, rubber and metal harnesses and costumes allow participants to act freely with each other. Equipping private spaces with swings, slings, restraints, slappers, crops and contoured furniture is a great way to fully imagine what type of play you and your partner would love to engage in.

Most important is the inclusion of sex toys. Depending on your chosen role, sexual practice of choice and what degree of sensation you are seeking, the types of toys and aids are important. Along with safety items like gloves, lubricants and condoms, collections of gender-mimicking toys should also be on hand.

Dildos and vibrators of different widths, lengths and materials should be part of your play. Whips and flagellation devices add to the intensity of being restrained. Masks and gags add a danger element and intensify role-play. Cockrings, nipple clamps, electro-shock paddles, butt plugs, speculums and prostate massagers should also be considered for effective BDSM play.

Always remember to research and read up on what you might be interested in. At Randy Fox, we can help guide you through your initial experimentation with BDSM, and equip your personal dungeon of pleasure with items as you learn more about the lifestyle. From toe-cuffing, to extreme pain, we have aimed at stocking a large range of Bondage items for all levels of play! Feel free to browse our bondage items and toy sections of our catalogue for an intriguing look at including a bondage element within your sex life.

In the world of sex toys, perhaps no masturbation aid enjoys more notoriety than the “rabbit” vibrator. Sold under the names Jack Rabbit, Jessica Rabbit or Rabbit Pearl, these high-tech “enhanced dildos” thrust themselves into the market in the late 1990’s. After high profile exposure on “Sex and the City”, the Rabbit Vibrator rose to stardom faster than any other sex toy ever has. More women than ever are discovering the joys of the rabbit, and even women who were previously reluctant to purchase sex toys are taking the rabbit for a ride.

What makes the rabbit so special? There are many types of “rabbit” vibrators on the market, and the differences between them centre primarily on construction materials, motors and aesthetic design. All rabbit vibrators are shaped like a large, inviting phallus and have a more delicate, feathery appendage attached to the shaft. It is the two “ears” of that appendage that give the rabbit its name and that can produce intense clitoral orgasms. Rabbit vibrators generally have two motors: One motor powers the rotating shaft, and the other motor is dedicated to providing the power for the “ears.” Some common materials used in the construction of rabbit vibes are silicone, polyvinyl chloride, latex and hard plastic. The rabbit’s power to drive a woman to intense, often multiple orgasms is provided in early times by internal replaceable batteries. Nowadays, you'll find many a rabbit that's rechargeable! Energizer bunny eat your heart out.

Quick Tips for Beginners

If you've taken the plunge and purchased one of the many excellent rabbit vibrators on the market, you may be wondering how to get maximum pleasure from your new best friend. Your first order of business is to pick up some good quality lubricant. The sensations delivered by a rabbit vibrator are significantly enhanced with the use of a water-soluble lubricant, and there are many good quality lubricants on the market to choose from. Once you’re alone or with your partner, begin by getting to know the controls on your new toy. There is nothing less arousing than fumbling to adjust the controls of your sex toy at a critical moment, and a little experimentation will give you the lay of the land. Once you and your rabbit are on “intimate” terms, it’s time to apply some lube and to set the rabbit to its lowest power setting. Slowly introduce the tip of the rabbit into your vagina, stopping to allow yourself to become accustomed to the new sensations. As soon as you feel comfortable, begin to take the shaft deeper and let the rabbit ears do what they do best.

Final Words of the Rabbit

The ever growing popularity of the amazing rabbit vibrator is hopping into bedrooms all over the world. They offer extreme stimulation, clever design and the convenience of a two-in-one package. The rabbits are amongst the most popular sex toys available, and their reputation is justified. From their explosive beginnings in 1998 to their current worldwide popularity, rabbit vibrators have left a long trail of satisfied customers in their wake.

What has made having and using sex to toys so popular to the mainstream crowd? Here are some very good reasons for the erotic toy explosion.

Sex Toys Prolong Sexual Encounters

For those of you who have trouble lasting as long as your partner would like, there is a wide variety of toys that are specifically designed to “go the distance” when the need arises. Penis shaped dildos, couple enhancers, vibrators and other erotic devices are all meticulously crafted to prolong and intensify lovemaking.

Toys Help Women Achieve Orgasm

Surprisingly few women can achieve a satisfying orgasm through vaginal penetration alone. Though deep penetrative sex is undeniably stimulating, it’s often necessary to add clitoral stimulation to bring a woman to an intense and satisfying climax. A vibrator can be used to stimulate the woman’s clitoris during intercourse, increasing her pleasure and bringing her easily to orgasm.

Erotic Toys Enhance Sexual Imagination

In many cases, all it takes to re-ignite a couple’s sexual fire is a change from the usual to the unusual. Adding sex toys to the mix can energise an otherwise pedestrian evening and shift your desire into high gear. Fetish wear, dildos, bondage gear and other erotic accessories can bring your fantasies to life and help you become more uninhibited as a couple.

The Impact of Impotence is Reduced

It is a fact that all men suffer from performance issues at one time or another. For a certain percentage of men, impotence has a medical cause and requires medical treatment. Products such as penis rings or desensitising sprays can help to delay male ejaculation, providing better sex for both parties. Sex toys such as penis-shaped dildos and vibrators can assist couples experiencing performance issues no matter what the underlying cause of the problem may be. These exciting and very lifelike playthings can ease performance pressure for the man and help assure that the woman is very pleasantly satisfied. In fact, just having such devices handy can help alleviate a man's performance anxiety and allow him to have more rigid, longer lasting erections.

 Variety in Penetration                    

Most women are very satisfied by the feeling of being penetrated by their lover’s penis. Nevertheless, many women do confess a desire to experience the deeper penetration possible with a larger phallus. Many types of long, thick and extremely lifelike penis-shaped dildos are available to the woman who wants to experience deep penetration, and adding one of these toys to your lovemaking can increase the excitement for both partners. Not only that, but there are curved sex toys that are aimed at either G-Spot or P-Spot stimulation, as well as smaller, discreet products that can be hidden away from prying eyes.

Intimacy & Psychological Comfort are Increased

Even after they have been together for some time, many couples are not as comfortable with each other in intimate situations as they would like to be. Studies have shown that the use of fantasy and erotic sex toys during lovemaking increases each partner’s comfort with the other in sexual situations. If you've always wanted to get to know your partner more intimately, enjoying each other with the benefit of erotic toys is a great place to start!

As you can see, sex toys are not just for the kinky and eclectic among us; exciting and erotic toys and accessories can provide specific and important benefits to mainstream couples and singles alike. There is no time like the present for you to shop around, experiment and find out what exciting playthings are right for you.